I still see the term ‘beauty’ not matching masculine, as it gives the wrong impression. If I think of any actual masculine guys who teach masculinity material/coaching.. they wouldn’t even consider using the concept of ‘beauty’ for it. Only young guys or women bring in that concept where it doesn’t really fit.
I don’t agree with it needing balance either. Men should be predominantly masculine, which doesn’t discount gentleness at the right time, being loving, playfulness and such as you need that side too. I love being playful and my random sense of humor and I wouldn’t want to lose that.
The 50/50 Masculine/Feminine thing isn’t what i’m looking for and doesn’t work very well. Every single coach i’ve seen who expouses that is without fail not masculine at all in his energy, vibe or manner. And there’s something very ‘off’ about them.
With what’s going on in society and how far masculine energy has been suppressed, I think it’s going to be pretty difficult for any guy to be ‘too masculine’ as there’s alot of layers of brainwashing to go through.
There’s still the general things that inherently are masculine, and things that completely are not.
I have that gentle side, problems being too nice at times so I don’t need more on the softer side.
At times do have the masculine vibe and groundedness but I want it to be consistent.
Anyway thanks for the other ideas.
Flame of mars actually sounds really awesome, I didn’t really consider it nor looked much on that site since it said cosmetics. That sounds like a good ‘next layer’ after using receiving the father for a while.
Ares protocol is also interesting, I hadn’t considered it as it seems to communicate “become massive like a bodybuilder” but seeing your recent reply about setting intent I could use it for how I want to look. Would it help with fat loss too? (that’s also an issue). I figured I could set the intent, but if it doesn’t have any focus on fat loss at all the intent might not work.
Are there any plans for an updated more comprehensive testosterone/male hormone audio?
Anyway, I definately have different ideas than alot of what is on offer, and i’d say it’s likely there’s other guys looking for a similar thing who are also turned off by some of those aspects i’ve disagreed with. So if there was interest in a masculinity type field without some of those concepts that is a bit more ‘raw’ i’d be happy to give input into how it might look, what it might contain and could even test it. As you’ve seen I can write fairly in depth about my ideas, and I know what I want to embody and create but haven’t really found a way that’s deep enough to do so yet.
What i’m after isn’t some hardcore bodybuilder dude running around carrying carpets under his arms pretending to be tough, staring everyone up and down, being crazily aggressive to everyone which some people might think i’m hinting at. Nor do I mean a barbarian in historic times drinking the blood of his enemies.
No I mean genuine confidence, security, groundedness, masculine vibe, no needing to overcompensate or ‘talk shit’ (you know those guys pretending to be tough, telling made up stories and such), but being genuinely strong, confident, capable, assertive in a grounded way, genuine leadership, being in control, calm under pressure etc. But without some of the feminine concepts that we are now being told men should be.
Anyway, I can expand if you do have interest in creating such a field. Because I can’t pretend I agree with all the concepts presented around masculinity (though there’s alot of great ones too in the descriptions) as my life experience has showed me differently.
and still plenty of blockages waiting for me to overcome. However, my relationship with family is getting better every day.