Sex is sacred when two people love each other.
It’s good to be made with love as both exchange energies and information between them.
This is program from religions to compress the biggest force in the human beings - sex drive, kundalini, to put shame of your body. Do you think that Creator or Universe, or what you want to call it - made this perfect beautiful body so you can now feel shame from you?
There are two types of people who are going on the spiritual path:
- Suffering ones - like monks. They stop to make sex, they go on vegetarian diet, etc. Which in the beginning is compressing, because “they should do that” otherwise they won’t be accepted.
- People who choose joy and love - It doesn’t really matter what you are doing as long as you enjoy it. Here the important thing is to don’t have low feelings such as shame, guilt, fear, etc.
Enlightenment is about unlearning all the crap that is programmed from the matrix. The truth is that you are already PERFECT. And you don’t need to learn or do anything to be perfect. All these spiritual tools in our time are made so you can remember that and break the illusion that there is something wrong with you.
When you drop a lot of stuck energy and emotions from your bodies, you raise automatically your vibration. High vibe is our natural state.
If you can drop all this programming from your head, you don’t need yoga, you don’t need one more course, you don’t need Maitreya’s fields, etc…
Just remove the things that make you low. You are not doing something wrong and there are no wrong things - only your perception of the things.
To get back on the sex…
When you are making sex with other person, keep in mind that you exchange energies. This is why it’s not good for you to have short relationships or based only on physical attraction (because you will get other stuff in your system too). If you love your partner it doesn’t matter how many times you will do sex. Even… sex drive means that the person is healthy.
(here i can add for men that they lose a lot energy if they are ejaculating often, but there are again techniques that you can practice to transmute this process)
Spiritual people who don’t have partners is good to raise their sexual energy to higher chakras so they don’t get blockages on the first ones. There are many practices for that - breathing, yoga, some other exercises. Or if the person’s mind is strong, he can do it only with thought.