Idea 1 - “I am the centre” (the power, the creator, the creative force etc)
I did a session a few days ago and part of it is connecting with your core and realizing “I am the creator”. She told me to connect with this every day, but i’m not totally sure how to. I’ve just been breathing and trying to focus on it as best as I can.
So that gives an idea for the field.
-Being strongly centered in your power. “I am the power” “I am the powerful creator of my own reality” “I am the core creator of my own experience” “I am the creative force in my life” (when it comes to being, creating, manifesting what I want and having the experience of life that I want) “I choose to create what I want, desire and what i’d love to have in my life” and to move towards that.
-Clearing out limiting beliefs, emotions, energies, traumas etc in the way of BEING and expressing your full power.
-Connected to your own power, inner strength, inspiration, confidence and certainty. Transforming limiting beliefs, emotions, energies etc around those. Each of these aspects related to being who you want to be and going towards your goals powerfully.
-I am the predominant creator in my own life.
-I live my true nature and purpose (of power, being the creator, being the centre of my own experience).
-Taking aligned action from this core towards what you want in your life, your goals etc.
-“I am the source of approval in my life”. Self approval, releasing caring about what others think of you, in a balanced way as obviously you care to a certain extent what people in your ‘tribe’ or close to you think about you, but if you really want to do or be something then you can still do it even if they might disapprove.
Initially I had the below as an addition to idea 1, but I come back to edit as I realized idea 2 would best be a seperate field in itself to be comprehensive enough and really do the idea justice. Though it could have some aspects of the above.
Idea 2 - Deep Connection To My Masculine Core.
This one really inspires me.
-Being deeply, powerfuly, strongly connected to and grounded your masculine core.
-Reflects in genuine, authentic confidence, groundedness, comfort in yourself, being grounded in your body.
I want to explain the feeling of groundedness as it always comes up for me and when I feel it I really enjoy it. It’s like strongly being grounded in my body which brings a sense of strength and quiet confidence (not the loud, over the top bs trying to get attention which is fake anyway), and things can happen around me like a dodgy person walking towards me and i’m able to be aware and stay grounded in myself and know if something happens I can deal with it, otherwise I can just stay aware and keep walking past.
If someone says something to me I don’t like I can deal with it in an assertive way, or make a joke of it cos I really don’t give a shit due to being strong in myself or just not care about it because i’m so strongly grounded, and these outside things don’t affect me negatively.
This also brings a strong sense of doing the things I want to do, taking the actions I want and choose to take, going for the things I want and being okay with doing so. I also feel a strong masculine polarity in my body, which I can’t explain but it goes along with all of this, and this reflects in a magnetism where I naturally attract girls, get positive attention, people want to talk to me, naturally want to have fun, be playful, talk to people if I choose to or I might not choose to depending on how I feel on the day.
The masculine polarity/core doesn’t exclude being playful, fun, feeling and expressing joy and such.. but personally I don’t see this as ‘feminine’ but also a part of the masculine expression. Those things expressed by the feminine would have a different quality than the masculine.
What is this masculine core? -
I’ve had this idea, but not sure how to express it. I’ve been trying to do it even trying to create my own meditations or combining methods.
My theory is at our core, the deepest part of ourselves we have this core polarity. If you’re grown up and been supported, loved, given permission to be a boy/man, learnt confidence in yourself and being powerful then this would result in a masculine core which is the natural expression as a man we should be.
If you grew up and were told “men are bad” “masculinity is bad” and given guilt, shame, trauma and attacked for it constantly. If your mum hated men and was really abusive to your dad and he wasn’t able to stand up for himself then you’ve likely suppressed your masculinity and it’s resulted in a more feminine core, resulting in a man not connected to his power.
(You could switch all this the other way for women, but that’s not my area of focus).
This might be made up of subconscious beliefs, emotions you’ve picked up, trauma, what you’ve learnt growing up, past experiences and all the usual things. So these things would need to be transformed and cleared out at the deepest level.
But I also see it as something at the deeper level, somewhere metaphorically in the body/energy field/deep in his being, but it’s not actual physical like an organ, maybe more energetic at a deep core part of yourself but you can’t express it, be it, be connected with it with the above limiting beliefs, traumas, limiting emotions etc.
But then you could clear those and not necessarily connect with it either. So how do we actually energetically connect with this deepest core, The Masculine Core so as to BE it, “this is just who I am” and naturally express from there. Confidence, inner power, how we move, act, being driven towards our goals powerfully and with certainty, the vibe we project.
The Masculine Core is the deepest level, then from there the new positive beliefs, emotions, energies and everything naturally flow from there to support, grow and expand it.
Take 2 men. 1 is striving constantly to goto the gym and get a good physique to desperately cover up his insecurities, fears, doubts, self hate etc hoping that if he gets that he will then be free of those issues, but it never works. This could be applied to other areas like trying to get girls, train martial arts etc from that place.
None of these things are bad and are actually constructive for most men, but what if it come from a completely different place.
He would be obsessively chasing girls, being needy, hoping to get it to feel good about himself and to get approval. Even trying to desperately do so from all of them even if he isn’t really interested in them. Desperately hoping for any shred of attention, sex, interest and just accepting what comes along even when he isn’t interested in her or he knows they are bad for each other because he feels like he can’t get anything else.
Man 2 -
He is deeply connected to this Masculine Core, his confidence, power, groundedness, certainty and everything else i’ve mentioned or even not thought of that goes along with it.
He then wants to get in shape, meet girls, do martial arts or other things.. but now it’s coming from a genuine, authentic expression of “I look powerful and strong on the outside which is reflecting the internal” (physique) “I’m training in martial arts as i’m passionate about it and it’s an amazing way to feel masculine” (guys who do this should understand what I mean, there’s nothing else that really matches it.)
Of course he would also be working to be genuinely capable incase he has no choice but to protect himself and people he cares about, then these things, physique, training etc feed back into the Masculine Core strengthening that.. it’s like a positive cycle first starting from the Masculine Core and going around and strengthening itself going deeper.
With girls he would again start from his masculine core, so would be confident and grounded in that, see the girl he wants and simply go over and flirt with, connect with her. Choosing the girl he wants, and his validation is coming internally so whatever happens is okay. This will be a completely different experience for both him and her and will end up in much more powerful interactions or relationships if he chooses to develop it that way because he genuinely likes her. They would both be genuinely attracted to and inspired by each other and it would flow.
And he would be the natural leader in this relationship, with her best interests at heart and would naturally attract feminine girls who want and crave that in their lives.
It looks like the same thing to a casual observer, but it’s a completely different expression and the 2nd man will give off a completely different vibe.
This isn’t suggesting that this audio should include things around the physique, attracting girls and such.. instead it would only be working on this core, and the choices, expressions and such would naturally flow from there. Those examples between the 2 men aren’t the only ones obviously, but they do well to communicate what i’m suggesting.
Ok that’s a good start, sorry I didn’t realize this would be so long. I got inspired.