I have been going through both law of attraction stuff by Esther and Jerry Hicks and reality trans surfing by Vladim Zealand. I am getting stuck on this part of different modes of action. If anyone has tried both, what do you think works well for each approach?
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With the Hicks’ Law of Attraction, the focus is on your inner state, your vibration, and allowing things to come with minimal action. It’s all about aligning yourself with what you want.
With Zeland’s Reality Transurfing, it’s more about consciously choosing your intention, reducing the influence of egregores,” and still taking action—but without creating unnecessary tension.
Personally, I prefer to stay in the right inner state, keep my vibration high, and then take inspired actions that naturally arise. For me, the key is acting from the right state. Actions taken from anger, lack, or frustration just create more of those feelings.
I also use intention daily. For example, I’ll set a simple intention like, “Tomorrow we’ll meet our friends and have a great time,” or “Tomorrow I’ll easily and successfully handle 1, 2, 3…” or “Today is going to be a wonderful day.” When I’m in a good state, I use the intention to “program” my nearest future—and it usually unfolds that way.
I also try to feel what it’s like to already have my goal realized, to align with that vibration. And from that state, I act.
With my wife, for example, I step into the state of “My wife was created for joy, love, and happiness, and it’s my role to love her, bring her joy, and make her happy.” From that state, my actions toward her naturally change, and the reality between us shifts.
I might also step into “My wife respects and loves me”—and that belief starts reflecting in real life.
So I both align my inner state and beliefs to attract, “as if doing nothing,” but at the same time I do take actions—only they’re from that aligned state.
Every day I immerse myself in the feeling of “I am the creator,” “I can do anything,” “everything around me is my creation.” From that state, I act—and reality reflects it back.
If something I want is more long-term and requires effort, I make sure I first hold it as already existing in my mind, and from that state I take action. Those actions naturally become more effective and effortless.
If I want something, I step into the feeling of already having it and ask, “What needs to be done for this to show up in my life?” Then energy starts to flow, ideas come, and I act on those ideas. This is very much like Zeland’s approach.
There have been many times I’ve received things “out of nowhere” without effort. For example, being in a joyful, lighthearted state with friends, we made a bet on whether those are seagulls or swans floating on the water ahead of us, and I won $2,000 in a minute—completely unexpected.
Honestly, I’m convinced that women—if they’re not super career-driven or obsessed with “achieving”—can simply live from the right inner state, embody femininity, have the right attitude toward themselves, men, and life… and they can have everything they want. People, partners, even strangers will give them gifts—cars, apartments, houses. But for that, you need total allowing and have no limiting beliefs like, “But if I accept a car from a stranger, I’ll owe him something, he’ll take advantage of me… no way…”—that kind of inner chatter kills it.
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Thank you. If you are willing to share, how has your views regarding women evolved-was it like this always or was it a result of the work you have done on yourself?
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This is, without a doubt, the result of working on myself.
I was like a child in relationships, the one everyone took care of. Both my mother and my wife.
Once, an astrologer even told me that I need to develop my Moon and Venus. I had big problems with them. To do that, I had to fix my relationship with my mom, with my wife, step out of their influence, become independent, responsible, and develop masculine qualities.
And I was also very explosive, because my Mars is in Scorpio, and my Sun is in the 8th house of life and death.
That’s basically where I came from, to where I am now.
I also have Pluto transiting my first house from 2016 to 2051, meaning an endless self-transformation. Nothing was as interesting to me as working on myself. I went very deep into self-work, including deep shadow sides like the Dark Triad (Narcissism, Machiavellianism, Psychopathy).
That’s exactly Pluto’s depth. And these energies transform everything around me.
My evolutionary qualities are empathy, sensing, expressing feelings.
Despite the fact that my wife is an Aries, she is very vulnerable, sensitive, and deeply emotional – and that’s exactly what I’m learning from her.
So I’m learning these evolutionary qualities, and I’m evolving. It’s becoming easier and easier for me.
Deep inside, I feel a lot, but it’s not easy to express feelings and care.
Even now, I can come across as very tough, aggressive, but behind that is a sincere desire to help. That’s just the image I have )) because my Ascendant is in Capricorn and my Mars is strong. ))
I went through very deep personal transformation (and I continue to), and I understand how much I’ve changed—how my reactions have changed, how I stopped creating conflicts out of nothing, how people’s attitude changed, including my mom and my wife.
That’s why I also share that I am the source of everything.
Before, I thought I was born with such qualities because the stars were aligned like that. But now I’m sure the stars just reflect us as we are.
Everything in our life is a reflection of us. There is nothing accidental.
Family, people, words, what we see, what we hear, even clothes, even the color of the walls in the room…
The aggressors who could hurt me disappeared from my life—not because I defeated them all, but because I worked through the aspects of aggression within myself, and the world simply started mirroring something completely different to me.
That’s why I say the world is a reflection of each of us.
If you see a problem in life—always look for the answer within yourself, and as soon as you switch into this mode, you will start evolving very quickly.
Because every situation, every “problem” mirrors some aspect of ourselves.
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What if someone got into self-development so much that they see everything as an opportunity to change? And they end up addicted to transformation. Me included.
I had to use the Ending Point field at some stage because I didn’t let changes settle.
I personally think that Scorpio placements have the most intense experiences because we love it. Each Zodiac is an egregore and emits specific qualities; the more you identify with a specific Zodiac, the more it will influence you.
I am an Aquarius, but bad at being an Aquarius 
I never really felt a connection apart from forward-thinking.
If we have access to zodiacs in our natal chart, we can consciously draw their power. It’s like working with archetypes in a way.
What was the most challenging?
I’ve been attracting Aries men, every time I needed to find courage in me or heal dynamic with my dad who is Aries, too. We always get rich teachers when we need. I noticed the Universe always pair right dynamics. If you need to learn something, it will connect you with someone who needs to learn with you. There is no time wasted, no mistakes, just alignment. Always
The most challenging part is that for 10 years I kept thinking that I needed to change stubborn aries, and not myself and my perception of her
I need to show this to my mum 
My parents are an explosive dynamite pair. My mum is Sagittarius with Aries Moon, my dad is Aries. So there is a constant war over who is in charge
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To show will not help.
One should understand deeply inside and transform from within.
They are used to such communication.
Besides that negative emotions are a huge source of energy.
Offend someone once – and you can draw energy from their anger ( or your offence) for a lifetime.
For example, in my opinion 85% of businesses are created from trauma, which generates a huge amount of energy.
But you can change your perception of your parents.
And there will be less war between them in your world.
A person appears in our life and behaves in a way that seems either appropriate or inappropriate to us, and we begin to judge them based on their behavior.
But we rarely realize that we attracted this person’s appearance with our own vibration.
If our vibration were different, their attitude toward us would also be different.
The person themselves could have been entirely different.
A victim always finds an aggressor.
Governments, too. Fear porn is the best policy to keep people in a loop of “Will there be another war or pandemic?”
I agree 
clearing, healing, acceptance of ourselves first. Let others live their lives as they want, but it also means that you sometimes need to let them leave your life, because there is no longer an energetic match.