Whenever an attractive fair-skinned woman talks to me, especially during a first meeting, I freeze up and become awkward. Afterward, I often get the feeling that she dislikes me, which makes me even more self-conscious and uncomfortable around her. Why am I like this?
Back when I was in 4th grade, a friend publicly humiliated me about this. Could that childhood experience be the reason I’m still reacting this way today?
I cant explain correctly with words how messy this situations are .
I’m not generalizing, but among the men I’ve spoken with who have had a similar issue, a common pattern was that they were overly focused on themselves—how they looked, whether they were liked or not, and how women perceived them. They had too many thoughts running through their minds about their own image and performance.
To break free from that cycle, you might try shifting your attention away from yourself and toward the woman you’re with. In other words, focus more on her—listen more carefully, communicate more openly, and give her your genuine attention. Many women respond strongly to the energy a man projects, and especially to whether they feel appreciated, desired, and genuinely seen.
Next time, give that approach a try. You may also want to use the field that was suggested in the comment above to help release and heal that old trauma pattern.
I get nervous around women too but I also have autism so I get social anxiety in general around people. These fields have helped me talk to women without feeling that way
Attraction magnetic sexual bundle (for him) - I believe she made an update to this field but I combine it with soulmate field to only attract good relationships as I don’t believe in having casual sex unless I have feeling for them
Apollo perfect masculine beauty
I can’t reccomend this field enough, as soon as I use it my anxiety disappears, my posture improves I can feel I walk with confidence and y mind clears, my solar plexus opens and I feel confidence in who I am
Tremendous confidence boost
Another great field that helps me a lot
Release karmic bindings
I’ve come to realize after using this field a lot of this issues are from past lives, this field will remove those anxieties with women if you may have mistreated them in a past life (if you learned your lesson)
Sometimes the Issue is that attractive Women Nowadays are treated like Goddesses, while they are still just human beings like everyone else.
Once you change your entire View of who these women are, things can get smooth.
They are mothers, Sisters, Daughters
And they are fun to hang around with. Nothing Special about them, just because they are attractive
But it does help a lot to know oneself, and to Like oneself. That projects the Energy outward and women sense that. You just gotta know that you got what it takes.
I wouldn’t say theirs nothing special about them, women have to do a lot more to keep up with societies standards of beauty.. I hate having to shave my face all the time lol imagine having to constantly shave your entire body all the time. They also have to endure a lot of things we don’t such as menstrual cycles and having to be the one to give birth which is a beautiful but also scary experience, they are goddesses and should be respected. But that being said everything else I agree with, they are attracted to confident, strong men not men who are indecisive, anxious, and overthink everything.. try out those fields and do some meditating on releasing the past traumas and you got this!
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