You were expecting to reverse a massive, long term problem in a couple days? Think logically about your situation for a moment. If you donāt know how to fix this yourself and you donāt have access to expert help from a master, then why would you think you could get nearly instant results?
The tools youāve been suggested to use are sophisticated and effective, but they are just that - tools. Tools have to be put to use to either repair or build anew.
I know Iām being a bit harsh, but this is tough love meant entirely to get your attention and get you back to health as quickly as possible. Here on the forum, weāre not able to work with you in person, so best we can do is tell you to try something, then see how you respond and hopefully make better suggestions based on your feedbackā¦not exactly a winning formula for resolving complex problems.
Itās like trying to get a surgical consultation for a terminal issue by texting your doctor. When you donāt get better in a week, you try the surgery yourself and as expected, get worse.
Yes, it is.
If you need fast results that are of high quality, then youāll have to spend money (itās an old saying: cheap, fast, good - pick two). For your situation, I strongly, STRONGLY recommend you purchase a session with Brenda at Services - The Elders Three. Brenda is a master at situations like yours and will be able to help you get results quickly, if youāre able to work with her.
Good luck.