You need to follow your intuition. Not everyone incarnated into difficult bloodlines.
No. Detachment is removing your energy and focus, but this won’t remove your beliefs from the subconscious mind.
This is between you and your soul. My soul pushed me toward the direction I didn’t want to go. I see a few of my friends stuck in careers that are not what their souls want, and they are not going well. Obstacles, issues, and lack of fulfilment.
You need to find your own way. Working on intuition helps. Calmnes. Silence. You can ask for signs, but when you’re connected to your Higher Self you seek answers inside not outside.