I am sorry about your loss. 
I would go with no2. You can’t shift to the past, you have already received a negative response. Focus on the future. You can use this DM: SLOW PERCEPTION OF TIME to get more time.
I am sorry about your loss.
I would go with no2. You can’t shift to the past, you have already received a negative response. Focus on the future. You can use this DM: SLOW PERCEPTION OF TIME to get more time.