Why is it so hard to tap into unconditional love?
Is it easier for you to love yourself unconditionally or love other people without expectations?
I always struggled with self-love. I was my own harshest critic, thinking that I need to be slimmer, smarter, prettier, richer in order to earn love.
However, when it was about others, I had a lot of understanding, patience, and I gave, gave, gave, thinking that was generosity. While it was “If I love them unconditionally, maybe they will do that, too”
After years of constant heartbreaks, rejections, and abandonment, I finally realised that you can’t truly love if you don’t love yourself. So all that energy I gave to others should be mine first, so I could magnify this and then give. You can’t pour from an empty cup but once you learn how to fill up with love for yourself then you can manifest everything for yourself.
Btw, I love the hand cream. I used this all over my body many times when I had moments of doubt, and I was breaking another pattern. The most beautiful effect I experienced “I am the magic”. It was always inside me, not the outside. So I use it with this intention because it feels so good to be connected to my own magic.