💔 Global Love Problem

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There can also be very strong attraction to partners who are not truly compatible with us when the spirit of a baby comes into our field.

For example, if you have wished to have a baby but do not yet have a partner, you may attract someone with whom there is intense passion and the feeling of a powerful love — as if you are two universes trying to merge into one, which is essentially what sexual energy represents.

The spirit of the baby can strongly influence both you and the other person, pulling you toward one another.

This can be wonderful, but there is a possibility that if you do not share a deeper emotional or spiritual connection, then after the baby is born, you and the partner may start strongly disliking each other, arguing, resenting each other, and eventually separating.

This happens because the baby’s spirit is no longer activating that energetic pull; its mission and purpose were to be born, and once that happens, the energy fades.

For this reason, if you want to have a child, always set the intention to have it with a partner whom you love and who loves you, so you don’t end up in a difficult situation afterward.

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Thanks dear for the detailed explanation. Which field do you recommend for us to break the vows?

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Yeah ancestral pattern is a huge case today for everyone. However, when you heal, when you open up, when you sort things up, you have less people to attract. If 90% is not doing anything to heal, and you’ve healed, you can only attract 10%. It was way much easier for me to meet people when I was wounded because compatibility was 90%.

Add to this energy aspect, soul purpose and we go down to 1% So majority of people who is ready to love is stuck at the stage of being on their own. I am happy on my own, I appreciate the love I receive from my pets, family, and random people. I feel loved, really. I have bad moments when I feel “Jesus, I just want a long hug” I don’t reject my needs for closeness; I am healthy and normal to crave it. But too many people want just my body and don’t care about my soul/dreams/mind and I want it all. I want someone fully with that whole darkness, scars and imperfections.

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It seems like you could bring a bit more lightness and joy into your relationships.
Let yourself enjoy life again: go on some dates, flirt a little, let men feel your beauty, and share your energy with them playfully.

Kiss someone in a doorway like a lovestruck schoolgirl - let your heart remember that it’s alive.

Right now your words feel heavy and serious. But a state of lightness, fun, and playfulness would suit you so much more.

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Hero, your words are inspiring. I will try these.

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Like Sikras mentioned, I’ve found the most love, unexpectedly, by not making love connections with those who would require me to step down to meet them..

Ironically, it’s not that I’ve created more relationships, but that my reservoir of love is no longer being drained, leaving me with a feeling of experiencing more love, along with the desire to protect it.

The tough part is being around people who are not a match, and worse, who are not a match and pull on you, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, through attachments, quickly create a feeling of wanting.

In that interim of being selective, it’s become clear to me, the only true way out of that feeling of desire for love, is to not back down and reach for what we knew. But, closing that door energetically destroys the pull and lets us face the present and look forward. I think it’s a time for building.. preparation, although it’s hard if your bio clock starts asking for children at this time, or as Maitreya said

Made a few mistakes following that yearning..ending up with people who like you because you are sparkly and joyful eventually becomes a drain, and then results in a lack of self love because of the choice to remain in something not right for you, but provides a small sensation of what you truly desire.

I think the interim space adjusts our radar to pick up on those who are —truly……truly — aligned, on vibration, integrity, path, and also resolves those wounds that would cause us to dip in frequency. It feels like we’re held in space and waiting, if we’re resolving the yearning, but it has its importance.

Sometimes, trying to leave that space too soon leads us to spiritual others with energetic knowledge who intentionally create false bonds, dream time bonds, which might be more damaging and require more detangling, IME

It might sound funny, but K-dramas are especially helpful in resolving yearning and eliminating desire for unhealthy connections just to reach the feeling of love :rofl: . The storylines are often about slow love, lasting love, kind love, and healthy boundaries. It’s a good rewire if leaving tumultuous love.

But being playful (with boundaries) has its perks too like Hero’s said, and having fun with the day-to-day interaction without the attachment. I’ve noticed when in this energy, sometimes a surprise connection comes in and suddenly your chat turns into a visit to the arcade or dinner, walk around town, and ends there, with both parties feeling fulfilled :smiling_face:

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I agree, yes. And I also agree, I feel heavy, because I am having an existential crisis.
I don’t feel playful. I feel soft and vulnerable and like a volcano at the same time. I feel naked. I’m shedding parts of myself that allowed me to survive and defend myself.

I’ve been flirtatious and had a lot of fun, but when you’re in that mode, @Hero, you attract men who want to flirt and go.

Yes, because this forum is my safe space to share it. I am not going to talk to guys in style “you know mate, I date to marry - only, so don’t waste my time” :grinning_cat_with_smiling_eyes: I have you here in the forum to express my completely tangled feminine and thank you for participating in that.

I feel that I need a masculine energy because I get softer. I want to experience that. I can balance myself internally, yes. Masculine-feminine inside, I know how to but I want teamwork. I want co-regulate with someone.

What is K-drama?

For sure I am full on M-drama :rofl:

People don’t like people with depth because they don’t want to dive into their own.
Spiritual women read energies, and we don’t buy BS so easily. From my experience with men they always end up with “Love Island” type of girls because they don’t challenge them.

I could easily have many men for dates and fun. But when I add an energetic filter to block men who just want my body, I am left with nothing. They want light and bright experience but what about my dark side? I want someone who wants all of me. And I will get one who is not afraid of my full spectrum. I might be 50 but it is what it is :rofl:

I need a hug. I’m no longer a strong, independent woman. I need a hug. :face_without_mouth: Life was much better when I was in my masculine energy, I cared less, but those Beauty fields won’t let me.

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I feel every word you’re saying. :face_exhaling:

We each come from so many different backgrounds, different angles of experiences, but all ended up here, and share similar challenges.

There are definitely men out there who enjoy depth, though, just shining on that here. Maybe a new page is incoming.

K-drama might be too light for you right now :rofl: . It’s short for “Korean Drama.”

I look wistfully at the men who could give me a great big bear hug so I understand the feeling lol. Im in a different space with Her, though.

Maybe your desire is here to pull it in with discernment.

I fully acknowledge what you’ve brought here - it’s real!

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Awww, my mum watches it. I heard it is very romantic. My type would be something like Geralt, but without his dismissive avoidance lol just I would share the same dark sense of humour and do have a bit of Yennefer in me.
Yeah, this is a bad romance example.

World would look better if we hug people more often.

We all want love and being loved. Our universe is one big love lesson because our Source is the Unconditional Love, so this is our primal need.

Whatever that space is I hope it will be filled with love. I really want to read successful love stories.

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Maybe a hug therapy field would be helpful

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Everytime I feel this I remind myself Margaret Atwood said that the desire to be loved is the last illusion :rofl:

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Human experience without this would be pretty boring :slight_smile:

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Yes! I became tired of the Fall & Winter storylines of the Hallmark channel and graduated to something more lifelike, lol. K-Dramas are not necessarily hopelessly romantic, but romance intertwined with the realities of life. I especially love their spiritual storylines.

I think you’re referring to The Witcher— I have not watched it yet, but am curious. “Bad romance example” — must be deep :laughing: .

Agreed! Thank you! I hope yours will be filled with love, too. Here’s to successful love stories where we get to consciously enjoy every minute :clinking_glasses:

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A field for releasing oxytocin — but you should only use it at home, so you don’t get attached to the wrong people haha

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Are you going to release this field. If so I will buy it.

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I would make one, but it really needs to be used very carefully and not together with MM2, because if oxytocin gets released toward things it shouldn’t — it could turn out very badly. You shouldn’t even look at social media during that time… Maybe only during meditation…

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Sure. I will make sure to follow the guidelines.

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Makes me feel like it should not be released. Or come with a kill button regulated automatically by higher self.

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We do have completely different hormonal responses. Men get attached by releasing vasopressin. It happens the moment they start to feel protective. But it often activates their avoidance just like women run after releasing oxytocin.

I find Archangel Michael’s field the best so far. I slept 12 hours like in a cradle. This is love with protection, and I love other people this way, too.
We have 5 planets in retrograde now, so when they move back, everything hidden surfaces. We’ve discovered with my mum the “sins” of our family, unexpectedly. And we both agreed that it’s no wonder our ancestral healing knocks us out.

I allowed myself to be dramatic, and it felt liberating. Good girls don’t make others uncomfortable and hide their emotions, and I cried in front of someone without regret that it would hurt someone else.

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How about more environmental fields for clearing other emotions like sadness, anxiety, depression, etc. Like the release anger field you put out for environmental. I know the entities that have been around me are pretty upset with those kind of fields😃

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