This is inspired by my recent shamanic journey.
We have a king/queen that comes with a huge responsibility, right? But we are stripped of that moment of being a princess or prince when our parents ruled the kingdom and taught us how to step into that role one day. Where you have privileges but not yet so many responsibilities. Where you know you can ask your parents for a new horse, and they can afford it and give you even more than that.
Without this stage, we know only: I need to work hard, I am a responsible leader, I need to build a kingdom, NOT inherit one. So you work harder and harder not knowing that the Universe could make it easier for you, if you would learn how to ask with ease and trust that you will get it.
How many of us had parents who barely handled themselves? How many of us are parentified daughters and sons who took care of everyone around and stepped into adulthood too soon?
You can’t get your young years back, but I think this field would be great to experience that so we could be better leaders, better kings and queens.
I wanna be a princess and get princess treatment not out of being immature or lazy but because it would feel nice.
The Empowered Princess Archetype:
The Season of Receiving Without Guilt
Core Essence:
She is cherished, supported, and naturally magnetic — not because she demands it, but because she recognises her worth and allows herself to be held.
She honours the phase of being the one who receives before becoming the one who gives structure or leads others.
Qualities
- Receives with Grace – She lets herself be adored, gifted, supported. She doesn’t apologise for needing help or wanting ease.
- Holds Sacred Responsibility Lightly – She is learning, watching, and absorbing. She knows she will lead one day, so she prepares with presence, not pressure.
- Balanced Humility – She knows she’s privileged… and she honours it by staying kind, aware, and generous.
- Emotional Nobility – She doesn’t manipulate with her feelings — she expresses her needs clearly and trusts they’ll be met.
- Protected but Not Passive – She accepts protection from her King, Queen, or court — yet she stays engaged, responsive, and reflective.
Strengths
- Aligned Timing – She doesn’t rush to become Queen. She honours her current chapter, allowing life to unfold at the right rhythm.
- Learns from Love – Every relationship teaches her something about boundaries, desire, integrity, and emotional sovereignty.
- Builds Her Inner Kingdom – She crafts self-trust, identity, and emotional intelligence so that when she does rule, she rules with grace.
- Models Worthiness for Others – By receiving with openness, she shows others it’s safe to be soft and successful.
Advantages of This Phase
- She grows without burnout.
- She manifests through alignment, not effort.
- She becomes magnetic to mentors, allies, protectors, and true love.
- She integrates joy, luxury, and ease as her normal.
- She evolves without bypassing softness — meaning when she becomes Queen, she does so with a full, healed heart.
Hidden Power:
This Princess is not “less than” the Queen.
She’s preparing to rule with joy instead of wounds.
She doesn’t rush into independence out of trauma.
She trusts that being held, chosen, and supported is a sacred initiation — not a trap.
The Empowered Prince Archetype
Sacred Chivalry and Devotion in Motion
Core Essence:
He is on a path of becoming — but he already carries the seeds of greatness.
He is devoted to growth, to service, to honouring the feminine — not because it makes him a “good man,” but because it aligns with his truth.
His heart is open, his word matters, and his presence makes the world safer.
Qualities
- Chivalrous by Nature, Not Duty – His desire to protect, support, and show up is intrinsic. It’s not about reward; it’s about honour.
- Humble Strength – He doesn’t pretend to be the King yet, but he walks with dignity. His humility is magnetic.
- Romantic Integrity – He keeps promises. He initiates. He leads with clarity and respect — not confusion or chaos.
- Protective, Not Possessive – He safeguards what is sacred without controlling it.
- Emotionally Noble – He feels deeply but never uses feelings as excuses. He’s learning how to love with power and presence.
Strengths
- Eager to Learn – He listens, evolves, and refines his path. Growth is his honour, not his shame.
- Stabilises the Feminine – His presence gives calmness to the Princess and energy to the Queen. He delights in devotion.
- Earns Trust Through Action – He builds reliability, not just attraction. His word means something.
- Carries Light Without Needing a Crown – He doesn’t need a title to act with greatness. He trains for the crown — but does not crave it.
Advantages of This Archetype
- He creates safety through emotional consistency.
- He magnetises mentors, opportunities, and allies through his honour.
- He becomes the masculine the world forgot: effortful, emotionally awake, and energetically clean.
- He attracts a partner who recognises his gold before the throne.
- He builds a legacy by becoming, not by performing.
Hidden Power:
The Prince does not seek to take the throne — he becomes the man who can be entrusted with it.
He’s not rushing to rule — he’s focused on being worthy of devotion, of responsibility, of real love.
His chivalry is not a mask — it’s a vow.
