This field has been created to energetically and emotionally arrange your ancestral line in the most natural and healthy order. The process that this field initiates within your family and ancestral field is very deep and is similar to Bert Hellinger’s method of ‘Family Constellations. The field will place each member of your family tree, going to the distant past, exactly where they need to be in relation to each other. Each family’s well-being depends on this correct order and proper relationships. When for some reason there is a member of the family that is not in their rightful place problems arise in the whole family tree, even if that has happened 7 generations back. It is also possible that we ourselves have created such a distortion of the energy flow in our early life.
One of the basics of the Family Constellation method is for each member in the family line to be seen, acknowledged, and respected. If those conditions were not met in the past or are not met now, that creates problems for each member of the family.
Another basic premise in the method is that the child receives and the parent gives. In many families, this balance has been disturbed due to difficulties the parents have experienced in their own lives and the problems they encountered. In such a case the children, out of loyalty and love for their parents may have taken on themselves the burden of the parent, their pain, and their responsibilities and have been forced to grow up prematurely. This may lead to a lifetime of suffering and dysfunctional relationships in the child’s own life because they have broken the natural order in the family environment.
Children learn about the male energy from their fathers, who teach them how to cope with the physical world, and material things, shows them how to have personal boundaries in their relationships and the world in general, and teach them important virtues and abilities like protection of one’s dignity and pride, bravery, power, valor, fearlessness, shows them how to create a career and abundance, deal with material things, be active, assertive, etc. Power comes to the child from the male side of the family. So if the child blames his father and views him as less them themselves, they will never be able to fully develop their masculine power and energy and fulfill their full potential in the material world.
The mother teaches us how to love and be loved, how to relate to people, and have healthy personal relationships. She teaches us openness, connection to the world, attraction, trust, and faith. The mother is connected to the ability to survive in this world, to be able to find one’s place in it, in one’s work, or in relationships. The mother is symbolic of the energy of connecting, the way we connect, and teaches us how to connect based on her own ability to do that in her own life. If we had a poor connection to our mother, she was missing, or we formed an improper attitude towards her we may fail to learn and acquire those qualities and feelings. We might find ourselves unable to give and receive love, love ourselves, or even accept ourselves.
When there is trauma in the ancestral line, the flow of energy may have been disrupted and it may not be sufficient for those who live now. The power and love of this family are depleted.
Nature allows the weak to die off and the strong to continue on and flourish. In this way, it eliminates dysfunctional traits and individuals and supports evolution and improvement. That is why in some families we see that women can no longer bear children and men can no longer become fathers.
Such Imbalance however does not have to mean the end of a family. We are capable of changing the energy flow and rearranging the relationships so they become healthy and harmonious and new life and love is brought into the family line.
This field rearranges your family and ancestral line the way it should be so the power, love, and wisdom of your ancestors flow freely and reaches you.
In case of a deeper trauma where the process can’t be fully completed, the field has been programmed to show you who was the person who was rejected, isolated, and disrespected in your family line. You may have a dream showing you the person, or have a vision, or just remember something that was mentioned to you long ago, or just receive knowledge about it, like a story, even if you have no way of proving it was real. In such case, know that this is real and honor them. When you see a vision of your ancestor it is advised that you make a ritualistic gesture in his or her honor and show respect towards them. There isn’t a specific or fixed way to do that. You can do anything you feel appropriate according to your own belief or religion and their story. You could light a candle for your ancestors, release a Chinese lantern, plant a tree, lay flowers on their graves, or just somewhere on the ground for them. Anything you feel appropriate to send your respect and appreciation for their life. In such a way your ancestral line is harmonized with nature and the proper loving flow of energy. When that happens people experience huge improvements in every aspect of their lives and improved well-being, abundance, and health.
This field contains rectification of some very important features of family dynamic-honoring and accepting back rejected members of the family and honoring lost children and accepting them as members of the family tree.
When a person is severely ill, has a mental illness, or does something that the family rejects-like becoming an alcoholic, divorcing, getting pregnant out of wedlock, marrying the ‘wrong’ person, committing a crime, etc, they may be energetically rejected and excluded from the family. When that happens imbalance is created and another member of the family has to take on the burden and even repeat the destiny of the rejected member. This situation is healed by honoring that person, accepting them and their destiny as it was, and welcoming them into the family where they belong. That removes the burden from a younger family member who has taken it upon themselves to carry the issue of his rejected relative. The field will scan your family for such members and automatically place them where they belong, honoring and welcoming them.
The other issue-lost children, may happen when a child dies very young, a baby dies before they are born, or are aborted or miscarried. In this case, it appears that they are missing from the family, but in fact, their energetic imprint is still there and they need to be acknowledged and welcomed as members of that family as well.
In addition, this field will remove conditioning one has received from both parents regarding the other parent. Naturally, the child has equal love for both his mother and father and accepts them as one. Sometimes when there are problems in the family the child may get conditioned by their parents’ feelings toward one another. If the mother resents her husband the child accepts her feelings without realizing it and develops the same attitude towards the father and that in a way ‘infects’ their perception of males, and masculine energy in general, including the male energy within themselves. This leads to a loss of power and distorted self-identity. The opposite process is also possible but much less frequent, as the survival of the child depends on the mother and the child is more likely to associate with her. In any case, this field has an inbuilt feature to discover such conditioning and release it, replacing it with the Divine perspective of the father and the mother and the natural state of love and respect towards them.