Hi everyone!
I am looking for any suggestions to fields that are good for creating healthy boundaries. When searching this forum, I found out that the Warrior Archetype seems to be the best one.
But I am sure I might have missed something. Also Warrior Archetype got a lot more to the field so might not be the most optimal for gaining fast results?
What do you guys think?
DM: Become the Master of Your Life This field helped me a lot when I had to create boundaries with my family. If you want something with kick DM: Breaking Bad it helps to break conditioning.
Thank you Polaris for your great suggestions. I will try to get those two when I have the budget for it, unless you guys offer some kind if payment plans?
In the meantime you know of any free fields that I can use? I did find the field âSoul fragments retrievalâ which had some nice effects on me.
I would recommend âRelease and heal Gaslightingâ audio on Youtube. âBecome the Master of your lifeâ also has free audio version on Youtube. Fields for confidence and social skills also help with healthy boundaries. Itâs best when you know what is really behind your problem to choose the suitable fields.
@duongtho88 good suggestions 
You might consider this field https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QobWQ37Ha7o with the intention to cut you off from people that came to your mind first. I clear cords regularly and remove those that donât serve me, so they wonât affect me.
Thank you both for the suggestions!
I have been experimenting the past days with the fields you guys recommended. The field âBecome the master of your lifeâ had a profound effect on me the first time I used it but the other times it didnt had the same effect, maybe it was mostly subconsious the other days not sureâŚ
The field âHealing from gaslightâ has also been very effective and I still feel it a lot when I used it today.
Gonna do some cord cutting later, forgot about that one and been a long while since I last cut some cord, so thank you for the reminder.
The main reason im asking for guidance/suggestion regarding healthy boundaries is because I keep getting nasty entities that come into my life, usually I just clear them out using some fields for that. But this time I cant seem to get them out even after playing these fields for almost a month straight now, usually before it only took 3 days. So I did some research on this forum and found this quote by Maitreya on a parasite clearing field. [quote=âMaitreya, post:29, topic:4515â]
you have to break the behavior of others to ruin your self-boundaries and also itâs related to sucking energy from you
Those 2 should be completely healed for permanent results
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People have often told me that im âto niceâ therefor I came to the conclusion that I need some more healthy boundaries.
You need to cultivate self-love and improve your self-esteem. Itâs possible that your sense of love within yourself is broken. Self-love starts with healing your relationship with your parents.
Try some of these free, basic, and affordable fields:
Many of these fields are also available on YouTube.
Additionally, try fields related to healing Venus and the Moon (also available on YouTube).
Ideally, you should also have mandalas that help control your thoughts, allowing you to consciously focus on the positive and create that in your life. Consider using:
Finally, work on clearing your connection with your Higher Self.
Once you start loving yourself from within, you will begin to understand which actions come from self-love and which do not. Without love inside and without healing your relationship with your parents, you project the image of your parents onto others and seek their love. You get involved in various situations, doing things you donât like just to earn the love of your parents, receiving what you call love from others.
For example, someone praises you, says you did greatâwonderful, right? It doesnât matter that you did it for free or spent a whole month on it.
By cultivating love within yourself, you will be able to recognize:
Is getting a massage an act of self-love? Yes.
Is a getting some rest an act of self-love? Yes.
Is working on a project that requires you to work 15 hours a day for minimal pay an act of self-love? No.
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I recommend âNot niceâ by Dr. Aziz Gazipura if you enjoy reading books.
I was also too nice before until things turned out badly in my life and I had to learn to protect myself. Being too nice may be ok when you are young and you live in a good environment but later in life, you will attract only people who want to take advantage of you or take your ânicenessâ for granted, even by your own family and friends. And if you are financially better off, others will try to suck your money dry. Speaking from experience. Being kind and nice is overrated, what we need to learn is to love ourselves, prioritize ourselves and protect ourselves first.
Embrace your shadow, throw out your morality/good-bad/perfectionist sense for a while, and test being your shadow. Itâs fun and liberating. Practice saying ânoâ to what you donât want. People will be shocked but they will get adapted to the new you. And you will see how easy life would turn out when you can say no. You can avoid all the nuisances. People will respect you more and even treat you better. You will never want to return to being too nice anymore. âShadow Integrationâ and âBreaking Badâ would be the best companion fields.
I agree with Hero. Great advice, I have the
Parental Love Deep Healing Pendant, amoung others oneâs, like Remove negative energy and I can tell that You, that YES they work !! ALL the best. Knock, Seek & Ask. Youâre doing Your homework, good on you!!
Thank you guys for the wonderful information and suggestions of fields provided here. Now I got a lot of fields to try out.
I actually forgot about the heart de-armor one, I use to love that field when it was new, will start using it again.
Will also work on relationship to my parents since I have known that there are issues there but didnt think that was the cause. Makes sence why I often feel depressed after talking/being with my parents but I also get this feeling from other relatives, so just thought it was boundaries in general.
I will defenitely get âbreaking badâ after payday, been wanting it since Polaris first suggested it.
I just want to thank you all for contributing and sharing your solutions. Not only here but also in other threads. Sometimes, it is precisely what I need to read that day 
Fingers crossed for everyone who is creating a new version
Iâve spoken about this in the forum before and I am repeating it now. In spiritual circles, being âgoodâ can often be misunderstood as being passive, as if youâre foolish and will be manipulated by bad people and entities as they please. And if you decide to speak up, they will twist your words in manipulations, and in the end, you will appear to be the bad one, obstructive, guilty, etc.
Being good is not about tolerating and enduring abuse. On the contrary, one must be able to escalate and respond when threatened.
For instance, if a dog attacks you now, would you sit there explaining why it shouldnât behave that way? Would you allow it to bite you just because you are âgoodâ?
You need to close all windows and doors to abuse by people and situations to stop entities from attacking you.
People who have experienced violence in childhood, along with other even worse things, often struggle with the concept of personal boundaries as adults. They have been taught that they must endure and remain silent.
A person who is capable of being dangerous and responding to threats is actually strong, and the likelihood of them NOT needing to take action is much greater. People who feel weak and defenseless, and cannot protect themselves, may eventually snap under the pressure or suffer a breakdown, or they might make a serious mistake that could lead to even bigger problems.
Consider in which situations and with which people you compromise yourself and allow your boundaries to be violated, and one by one, work on resolving these issues.