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Maitreya can you list the ways through which we generally waste our sexual energy
For men, energy loss can occur through masturbation.
For women, it can happen through the menstrual cycle and childbirth.
For both sexes, stress, anxiety, anger, sadness, and other negative emotions drain energy as well.
If someone is attacking us energetically and we don’t have proper protection, they can siphon sexual (life-force) energy.
Energy leaks in the aura can also appear from trauma or shock.
An unhealthy lifestyle, poor diet, and a polluted environment can also have an effect.
Apart from all the points
I want to focus on the 1st point
Masturbation clearly is a waste of sexual energy
What about getting excited watching sex scenes in movies or social media which is now a days full of lustful content
And does the day dreaming we do also wastes our sexual energy ?
It’s impossible for a person to look at such things and not have a reaction. We all have sexual energy, and visual images naturally stimulate it. I don’t see anything wrong with that. The problem comes from uncontrolled masturbation — every single day. I’ve even heard that some people do it several times a day. In this case, there is strong energy present, but they don’t know how to channel it, so they simply release it.
If this energy is raised to the higher centers, a person can gain creativity, willpower, love, passion, strength in their voice and words, even mystical abilities, connection with God, and enlightenment. So the point is not how to reduce this energy, but how to use it properly.
For example, if you have $10,000 in savings in the bank, you don’t look for ways to spend and throw it away — you look for ways to use it for something beneficial, or even to multiply it so that it becomes $20,000.
It depends on what it is connected to — positive things would not drain our energy. Anxious thoughts and similar states, however, would deplete it.
Well I don’t masturbate but it leaks as nightfall usually once every week.
Just In case I watch anything sexual or entertaining sexual thoughts throughout the day, I play this audio twice before sleeping everyday to channel this energy
My point was that is having sexual thoughts is wastage of sexual energy.???
To conclude my point
Should I
1.stop watching movies
2.delete social media
3. Stop entertaining sexual thoughts
And move to a forest or something ![]()
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I don’t think you have any kind of problem. And no, you don’t need to go into the forest haha
Haha ok
If ejaculation is a waste of sexual energy
How do we make love with our partner
During intimacy with a partner, the energy flow is shared between both people, so there isn’t as much individual energy loss — it moves gently back and forth between you.
So what do you suggest
- Fast and rough sex with multiple ejaculations as shown in porn and movies
- Slow and gentle lovemaking without ejaculation
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My point was not asking for sexual advice but from spiritual point of view
I wanted to know if ejaculations waste sexual energy
So Should I focus on preserving semen or just do as I want
Many advanced practitioners — usually Buddhists — can control this energy and use it fully, but they also have teachers and specific practices, meaning they know exactly what they are doing rather than simply suppressing it. That is what I meant.
In the case of this audio, this energy can rise, but I would not recommend that men stop having sex, especially when they have partners or wives. The reason is what I mentioned earlier — between two people there is an energetic exchange. In fact, the woman gives the man large amounts of energy through the heart, and he gives yang energy through his sexual energy.
So our only advice is simply not to overdo masturbation, which you said you don’t do anyway. But we are not advising you to abstain from intimacy with your girlfriend.
At the very least, it’s not enough to just stop orgasm by willpower — that could create a blockage. Instead, you would need to study more about how to channel this energy inward during orgasm.
I am not marrried right now
I am in a state of confusion that’s why I am asking so many questions
After all my questions are finished I’ll reread all your answers multiple times and reach to some conclusion.
That’s what I asked
Should I focus on preserving semen while Indulging in intimacy
Or just enjoy the moment
Never do such things out of your head, from a position of forcing yourself. I don’t know why so many people believe that celibacy is better than being sexual, being yourself. Forcing celibacy can do more harm than good. Celibacy is only good if you internally want it. Why can’t we just accept that we are sexual beings? Why are we ashamed of our naked bodies? Why do sex and masturbation have to be associated with shame, addiction, loss of energy, something bad? Accept and love yourself, your body, your sexuality. Instead of doing it from a place of addiction, do it from a place of choice, of intention. Embrace it and enjoy it.
What you believe matters.
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@Maitreya do you think it makes sense to intend with this field to use the s.energy into fuel for absorption and integration of your fields and using it for the changes?
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This one will help my sexual energy to stopped being siphoned from the attacks? ![]()
when I’m around a certain person my sexual energy is completely drained no matter how many protections I use ![]()