Recently, I had several insights related to the fields of DM Leadership Gene (including the King Archetype) and DM King Presence. I enjoyed the state these fields provided; I felt very cool. However, constant self-improvement led me to the topic of addressing pride.
Pride and its manifestations:
The essence of pride:
Pride is connected to the ego and our feelings that contain fear. These feelings manifest as pride, reflecting in the world. We project our feelings of rejection, humiliation, and chosenness through behavior, words, and actions.
Pride is a defensive mechanism of trauma. It is always doomed to hostility towards the world and an inability to see its perfection. At the core of pride lies rejection, non-acceptance of something, and a war with God.
Fighting pride:
Fighting pride is useless, as it is itself an idea of pride. Instead, one needs to heal the trauma that leads to pride, and then it will go away.
The crown and its manifestations:
The crown on the head symbolizes the idea that someone should serve us. Behind this “coolness” hides a traumatized child yearning for love.
The crown grows from a struggle for power and a desire for superiority and domination over others. Chosenness is a type of pride. An example of chosenness: “No matter how much I explain to you, you will never understand.”
Self-destruction:
This is also a form of pride, expressed in the belief “I am worthless.” Inside a person with pride, there is everything—from a king to a victim. People who demonstrate their coolness often hide an inner sense of worthlessness.
Healing through love and repentance:
Healing requires love and forgiveness for the pain caused to others. One needs to repent for violating the laws of hierarchy and free will, suppressing others while being in pain.
Inner pain creates outer pain. All external traumas are created by traumatized people. The ego is an idea within the mind that has become a defense mechanism of trauma.
The root of pride:
The ego is the core of all pride, including the crown. Spiritual pride is the separation of oneself from the world, and the crown is pride manifested in the need for others to serve.
Working with the root of the trauma leads to its disappearance, and all habits associated with pride cease to manifest.
I even had an avatar with a crown. Everywhere I saw pride, but it was just a reflection of my own pride.
Serving Others
I hated the phrase “to serve others” earlier. But it turns out that millions of people around us serve others: creating goods, cooking, cleaning, washing, delivering, teaching… and so on. This is all also service. Service to other people surrounds us everywhere.
And I began to realize my divinity and understand the essence of how I, being divine, through my activities, serve or can serve other people.
Even spending time formulating thoughts, spending time and writing this post—I understand that I am serving people. Not to feed my pride, saying, “You don’t understand anything. Here’s how to think correctly.” With the processing of the traumatized parts of my pride, the motivation for actions changes significantly.
Changing people’s consciousness, improving their lives, and producing goods also serve others. What if people free themselves from their traumas, remove their crowns, and consciously embed the meaning of serving others into their activities?
What if instead of…
“I will create a business, I will earn 100 million dollars, buy everything in the world to show how cool I am…”
It will be…
"I will create a business so that hundreds of millions of people use the best and highest quality napkins in the world, while no trees will be cut down, and the napkins can decompose in the soil within 6 months."
I think, in the second case, 100 million would come much faster as a by-product of serving people.
PS: That’s how I transitioned from wanting to have a crown on my head and wanting others to serve me, to wanting to serve others.
PS2: Throughout Earth’s history, there have been many royals, but many were corrupt, cruel, or power-hungry.
What if those who came to power understood the essence of what it means to be a Divine King? To be kind, caring, and compassionate to all people, calm and focused in the face of conflict or opponents, and strong and brave in the face of fear and adversity. Most likely, they would also be humble.
What if rulers wanted to embody this divine essence?
