Can mandala also be used similarly to audio? I don’t have any specific needs. I’m just curious what it’s like to be with someone. Is this enough for the mandala to work automatically, or does it require the process of setting parameters with ‘transform’ word?
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Yes. You don’t need parameters. You can set the intention ‘The one who is be the best for me’.
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Thank you,
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Will it help if I turn my thoughts away from loneliness and focus on the thought that I am already with someone and spending time with them? The question is will I attract a person similar to the one in my thoughts and imagination or “The one who is the best for me” through the mandala? Or maybe I should let it go completely and forget about it.
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Maybe Letting go and Focus on now would help.
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I agree, I was also thinking about the “letting go” field, to release the attachment and the lack of the desired reality manifesting.
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Let go, especially of loneliness. Focus on yourself, self-care, and appreciation.
You can use Let Go and ask the mandala directly to tune you to the right frequency.
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Thank you guys.
Yes, I have big problem with it. Especially with appreciation. I am conditioned to see flaws in myself, forgetting about the advantages and good aspects. Could you give me some examples of what self-appreciation should look like? For me it’s abstract.
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Open the notebook and write this:
I like …your name… for:
I like him for being always on time.
I like him that he keeps secrets and is trustworthy.
I like how charming he is.
You need to write 20 things. It can be related to your skills like cooking, that people always call you first, how you drive your car smoothly, how you sing even when no one hears you, how you smile, or even a unique eye colour that draws attention.
That was one of the hardest tasks I had to do after a long-term relationship with a narcissist. Twenty examples were impossible for me.
Part 2 (even harder for some people) is to ask your friends for one thing that they like about you the most. And again, it sounds stupid. Why would you ask anyone for this? So this also helps you to release with whom you feel comfortable. Tell them that you work on yourself. To become a better person. This is not being needy, this is being progressive.
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I wonder how far I can go with my honesty without burdening anyone. Your post is a bit of a sign to me that I shouldn’t use this field, it makes absolutely no sense. This is not the right time. I have to start from the beginning, not from the end. I deleted this mandala.
I’ve never been in a relationship with anyone, I haven’t even tried because I have something inside me that I could generally call something is wrong with me. Of course, it’s much easier for me to describe the things I don’t like than the things I like about myself. I can’t write 20 things I like about myself. I was able to write 8, nothing more.
Part 2 is much worse.
I guess I’m a master at finding problems. I see two problems. When you write friends, no one comes to mind. A bit sad, but true. I dont have friends. My parents are also not a good idea because I feel the opposite of the word “like” towards me. I don’t think anyone has anything to like me for, but rather tolerate me or accept my presence. For me that’s a better words. I can sum it up in two words - deep loneliness.
So it’s a long way back home…
Where did you find the strength and motivation to get through it? How did you help yourself?
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You are not a burdenining anyone, please don’t think this way. I would remove this belief.
In fact, that you are stepping back from manifesting someone, it’s a sign that you care about people. Most people don’t care, they just want to be with someone. Because being alone is not nice. We, as human beings, are naturally sociable.
When we haven’t been loved properly in our childhood, there are often two main ways how this affects us as a teenager or adults (to simplify, but it’s more complex than that). Avoidance and Attachment issues.
Avoidant Type will as the name suggest avoid commitment, relationships, even when they want them. They will push people away. They will decide to stay alone, as they don’t believe that someone could love them, because they had not enough love in their childhood.
Attachment Type will try to stay in the relationship even when it hurts because they want to be loved and will do everything to please their partner to get it. Those are often people who stay in abusive relationships for years.
You can do a bit of research about it. What I would suggest is to focus on yourself and learn to love yourself. Then, use Attract Soulmate.
Fields that are beneficial in that:
Self Compassion https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9iH5dDCtPAc
Overcoming Loneliness and Isolation to Build Meaningful Connections https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=22zzg6DHw08
Parents Love https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ibzzFplxyS8
Self-worth and Confidence 200 Installed Subconsciousness Beliefs and Feelings https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x_vuZ0HLjSo
Self Love and Acceptance https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MvwyXK48sLw
Back to yourself. This should be step one for everyone who wants to find love. To start from themselves. Otherwise, you will attract ‘lessons’.
I was the Attachment Type and Avoidant, too. I had my heart broken badly by many men. I attracted soulmates, and they have taught me a lot. I did a lot of hard work. Years of healing. I am stubborn by default, so it helps. I don’t give up on my dreams.
Plus, being in love is one of the most beautiful things in the world. It makes you strong and vulnerable at the same time. I learned to embrace it. Even recently, someone I’m in love with broke my heart. Again. So, instead of feeling like a victim, I asked myself, “What should I learn from that?” It turned out to be a lot. And now I can thank him for teaching me another lesson.
You can either choose to stay alone, or try over and over again until you will meet the right person that will decide to work on this with you. Because we all have flaws, we are not perfect, and a relationship (any) takes a lot of hard work.
I would not become the woman I am so proud of now without all of those men in my life who have hurt me.
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I think I’ll stay alone. At least until I feel it’s the right time to deal with this topic. I thought that if I attracted my soulmate, there would be no such things as painful breakups and disappointments with the other person because it’s another thing to learn.
So if one day in the future I manage to work through these things within myself and I want to attract someone into my life, I mean someone like a life partner, someone I will marry in the future, is this the right field?
Very nicely said. Could I ask you what you learned? What do heartbreaks teach us?
Yes, this field is designed for it. It will attract the best possible partner. And by then, you can figure out who you want.
I am sure you will manage to work this out 
Just be kind to yourself.
I’ve learned to value myself. When you don’t get enough love as a child, then you think you need to earn everything, so you work hard. Then you work even harder. You can forgive them, but not yourself. You give so much, and my mistake was that I didn’t expect anything in return.
One of my gifts is unconditional love. I always loved everyone around me without conditions, and it was never hard for me to tap into this love. And it’s powerful, but I’ve never loved myself this way. This is my current lesson.
When you meet someone who will hurt you, it will tell you what needs to be healed. They will trigger you, sometimes not even intentionally. Every time, I learned a lot about myself. Instead of blaming them for pain, I forged this into knowledge.
You can stay away from relationships, but this is your comfort zone. There is a lot you can learn in your comfort zone, but the real growth is when you expand it and expose yourself. Love comes with vulnerability.
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Thank you for your knowledge and tips.
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Do you want to be my friend?
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Is this field the same as Golden Timeline the Perfect Soulmate Pendant?
Those fields are very similar
Can I use words rather than visualisation to describe the soulmate qualities and let DM work on it? I haven’t mastered perfect visualisation so.
You can write it down. Don’t forget about adding how they make you feel. Feelings are the fuel for manifestations.
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