Astrologically, it points to 2027 as the turning point, but there is already a strong period of influence leading up to it. We’re entering an era of individualization—where each person becomes fully self-sufficient. This will dissolve marriages that were previously based on having children, securing housing, obeying the husband, or the man financially supporting the woman, as these roles are increasingly fading.
What will remain are partnerships where people genuinely like and love each other, or clearly benefit from being together. This will fundamentally change how relationships are formed from now on. I think this is also the energetic reason why there are so many young people without partners—because others can no longer impose relationship desires onto them.
These days I am seeing the wave that points to women being more in their masculine and how that is prompting men to shift more in their feminine to maintain balance. People forget to ask why this happened.
In general, going forward, I sense each person would need to have harmony in themselves with their masculine and feminine energies. Earning money is not only for males and taking care of a baby is not only for females.
The family structure has to move from being hierarchical to collaborative.
Yes I’m reading many cases from both sides where woman left husband because he’s not to her status match and man divorcing wife out of jealousy because she’s didn’t become his personal maid and is dominant in things. I seriously don’t understand the world now .
I have this upcoming in my natal chart. There will be power conflict, ego clash he’ll be cold and dominant and I’m the rebellion one, which will turn ugly and its my life lessons how I control my internal self. Of course I’m aware now and will manage it wisely because I want peace and maximum contribution to world.
A harmonious and self-sufficient person can truly be happy both alone and with anyone. To start, you need to become harmonious and heal from all your traumas. So to become that way, you have to put in the effort.
For a partner to sincerely love you at the deepest level and in every aspect, you must first love yourself; your partner will always mirror the love you have for yourself. The same applies to self-respect and self-acceptance. A partner is not the cause of your self-love, but its reflection.
One more
A woman will never be able to find a man she can admire if she does not respect her father. Because a father is the first man in any girl’s life, and how she treats him determines her future interactions with men. The same applies to men in relation to women.
This is not a life sentence, it is just extra information. Knowing this, you can heal it all.
First and foremost, heal the relationship with your father. As soon as you change your attitude toward him, as soon as you let go of your resentment, and as soon as you change your mother’s point of view regarding your father (which you adopted (i.e., you started thinking about him just as poorly as your mother does)) - you will see the flow of energy between you change. He will start saying completely different things to you, you will begin to feel warmth toward him, a completely different energy will flow from him, and you will change your attitude toward male energy. This will change your relationships with men in general.
If you start to respect him, you will respect male energy. By respecting that energy, you will broadcast it to the world. Men will respond to this energy, and because you respect them, they will mirror your points of view and will behave in a way that gives you a reason to respect them.
This works both ways: if you respect a person, they will not be able to act disrespectfully toward you.
You have an open heart and you aren’t afraid to be vulnerable. In fact, with your open Anahata, you can do whatever you want with men.
But first, you need to heal your relationships. Ideally, you should take a course on ancestral work to heal all the family stories related to aggression and violence. It will be very easy for you because you have high sensitivity, and on top of that, you mentioned that you know how to receive information.
Once you heal your traumas related to men and keep your heart open, the best men will be drawn to you from everywhere, like moths to a flame.
Thank you for the advice , it does make sense and will follow. But my father he always try to creates trouble even at this age , it never stops. I really want him to be healthy and happy, I have no ill intentions, even if he yells at me in anger I don’t take it to heart and just forgive him. Before I used to have very strong resentment and hate, ego too but now since I walked into path of spirituallity I feel holding onto anything is useless, I just try to understand why it is happening on every side and let go. I’m not perfect yet but I’m trying, my anger and ego issues have toned down a lot, instead my crying has increased, maybe it’s a form of release. But I don’t want to cry either
And your words makes sense, I have noticed it when I feel greatfulness and respect him our relationship goes very friendly. So now I will always avoid involvement when there is a fight in family. I will work on ancestral line because I do sense lot of mess in this lineage and I don’t want to repeat it.
He simply doesn’t know how to act any differently. He was taught something completely different, and he probably doesn’t even know what real love feels like.
If you ask him about his childhood and his parents, you will be able to hear a lot.
I think he has a lot of trauma, pain, anger, and aggression inside himself.
I am not sure you can change him, but I know for sure that you can change your relationship just by changing your perception of your father.
And if you remove all the triggers he uses to provoke you, the process will go much faster.
A person always treats us the way we subconsciously think about them. This applies 101% to parents as well.
I know what I am talking about because I have healed my own relationships with myself, my mother, my father, my wife, and my ancestry.
Just start thinking and playing this in your mind: my father loves me and is incredibly kind to me. He respects my choices and treats my dignity with respect. I respect and love my father and i am grateful that he is my father. My father is a great man.
And you will see that even these thoughts will change his attitude and behavior
And if you start feeling this, old hurts and blocks will begin to surface, because opposing points of view cannot exist at the same time.
You are actually very cool, and you will definitely handle everything ))
Yes I have heard this, way long before, but didn’t pay much attention instead I used to say you have gone through a lot then why did you make these type of choices? I can’t believe I said so many mean things. But now I feel very sorry for him and I do feel his pain and even my brother’s even if they don’t express it openly. I do feel their regret even if they don’t experess verbally. Usually I have seen many who doesn’t like men who cry but I especially love men who shows their vulnerability openly. I will even tell my future husband to cry openly if he wants to, it’s not weakness, I won’t judge. And communication is the key to success.
He provokes the family not me, I’m done reacting , only thing that triggers me that he smokes some weed which is hazardous and has connections with lowly gang. One wrong move that senile gang could kill us all. I swear when I become an officer I will eliminate that gang and that illegal weed racket. Now his ex wife has also entered into picture, my mom’s mood swing is unpredictable, it’s a total mess but I don’t care anymore, for now only goal is to pass exam first. Then I’ll fix everything else one by one.
Thank you, I’m still in process of being a good leader. I have done lot of mistakes in my past lives, but this time I will put effort to be a compassionate bureaucrat who understands from all sides and be fair in judgement without any bias. Neither will I take actions out of anger or ego and die with regret. My only fear was taking wrong decisions but now it’s eliminated because I can talk to energies and Mai is also there to guide me I’m greatful for everything.
I think I’m doomed , this worked, since I broke the vow and listening to Venus audio because I have Venus combust, I got two matches back to back.
One even got completely obsessed with me at first sight and he is persuading me to marry him even though we only met (ノಠ益ಠ)ノ, he’s already sketching life plan.
I’m also getting unwanted attentions from all kind of men. Like they smile or literally stare longer than usual I’m not used to. I thought I was invisible to men
Is it because of Venus audio? My relationship with men has soothened like way too much, that even a shorter guy doesn’t care if I’m taller and want to marry me. I thought men avoided taller girls than them ??
I’m crying to my parents that I don’t want to meet anyone, it’s wasting my time because I have exam this month only, but they don’t believe in me that I will even crack it. They don’t know I have Maitreya to cheat the matrix, that I can do what even big toppers can’t in just single attempt, but I need to put work in order to succeed.
But then I waste 3-4 hours in this matchmaking drama (ノಠ益ಠ)ノ
How to set intention where I want to get Venus qualities but I don’t want to love life yet, I also don’t want to vow anything unnecessary too . It took lot of my energy to clear everything to Venus, contracts and vows. My parents are working against me, their attention has shifted to me than my sister, because I have no strict standard in men unlike sis.
To be real I’m actually getting very good charactered men, Venus is bringing very green flag men, topclass in heart but only I know they’re not that husband, so Universe always bring one off quality in men so I have to reject them or my parents does. But what about the time I waste? I request parents to send men after my exam atleast, they don’t listen. They are like it’s only half an hour but I waste more than 3-4 hours in total. I can complete an exam paper twice with this.
Your aura will adjust to it very quickly, but in general you can ask for a certain type of men to be drawn to you — ones you’d actually like and who are good for you. You can write down a list of their qualities, virtues, what they should be like, how you want to feel with them, or that they should be your soulmates, and so on.
Why not? You could ask for someone you can study or work with, someone who’s on the same path as you. Finding a person like that is priceless.
Okay, I’ll do this , thank you Mai , this is safer, originally I had only condition in my heart that a man should be a green flag that’s it. Now I’ll put a strong filter.
Haha, problem is I like to study alone. Even energies confirmed that I do better when I’m alone, especially when it comes to studies or skills. I even tried to study with my friend and we ended up failing the subject together .
This is why I became extreme introvert where there is least human interaction. I score high or be heavily skilled when I’m a lone wolf, maybe because I have a retrograde Mercury lol.
Thank you , I’ll put a strong intention now with qualities that I won’t waste time.
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, it does make sense and will follow. But my father he always try to creates trouble even at this age 
, it never stops. I really want him to be healthy and happy, I have no ill intentions, even if he yells at me in anger I don’t take it to heart and just forgive him. Before I used to have very strong resentment and hate, ego too but now since I walked into path of spirituallity I feel holding onto anything is useless, I just try to understand why it is happening on every side and let go. I’m not perfect yet but I’m trying, my anger and ego issues have toned down a lot, instead my crying has increased, maybe it’s a form of release. But I don’t want to cry either 
, only thing that triggers me that he smokes some weed which is hazardous and has connections with lowly gang. One wrong move that senile gang could kill us all. I swear when I become an officer I will eliminate that gang and that illegal weed racket. Now his ex wife has also entered into picture, my mom’s mood swing is unpredictable, it’s a total mess but I don’t care anymore, for now only goal is to pass exam first. Then I’ll fix everything else one by one.
Thank you, I’m still in process of being a good leader. I have done lot of mistakes in my past lives, but this time I will put effort to be a compassionate bureaucrat who understands from all sides and be fair in judgement without any bias. Neither will I take actions out of anger or ego and die with regret. My only fear was taking wrong decisions but now it’s eliminated because I can talk to energies and Mai is also there to guide me
I’m greatful for everything.
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