You don’t need to be perfectly healed, but you do need to heal yourself enough so you don’t repeat your parents’ patterns and can find a partner who supports you, someone who believes in you and sees you as a great man
Still, it’s your life, and you get to decide how to live it 
Very true!
You know with each passing day my confidence in myself increases. And also my Ability to Discern.
Maybe it‘s just my Testosterone speaking right now 
I can see why I do certain things but I still need to practice discernment during a strong Emotion!
Having a woman is a big part of life and I have not yet experienced that. I don‘t feel pressure from outside but more from inside.
Maybe it‘ll fade as quickly as it came
Yesterday we were talking with @Vega about a woman who broke up with her boyfriend and told the Universe not to send her anyone except her husband. Unfortunately, he only came after 9 years, and during that time she didn’t meet a single man who showed interest in her (and she is very beautiful). In the end she was happy with him, but those 9 years were filled with suffering about being alone. 
So we really need to know clearly what we want before we ask for it. We don’t know when our main partner will come or at what point in our Divine Timing it will happen.
Personally, I dislike this era of casual relationships and random sex—it just feels absurd to me. But I’ve also seen in people’s lives, including my own, that sometimes someone may have one spouse with whom they work through certain things, then they divorce, and with their second partner, things are much better.
I would personally leave it to the Universe to bring me the right partner without having too many strict requirements—usually the right ones come that way. If you want, you can try meditating to understand what you truly desire, because life isn’t endless and time keeps moving forward.
I am the Universe 
I like the Access Consciousness approach to relationships
There are three conditions for an ideal relationship: 1) The partner is great in bed; 2) They provide money (or the energy to create it); 3) You allow each other to do whatever you want.
Before choosing a partner or becoming intimate, ask yourself: “Will this person be a contribution to my life?” or “Will having sex with them be fun and bring me more money?”
Often, people are unconsciously married to their parents (for example, a son being the main man for his mother), which blocks them from creating their own lives. These energetic contracts need to be destroyed and uncreated.
The main message, however, is this: only be in a relationship if your life becomes better with them than it would be without them.
This hit me hard. Will work on this. Thanks.
Right and someone falls sick during the partnership and is satisfying none of these conditions, what is the solution then?
I would add:
It is scientifically established that when people come together, there is a surge of strong hormones that attract them in order to create a baby. After that, a critical phase in relationships begins.
The second crisis comes when the initial hormones fade, which happens in all relationships. What determines whether a relationship lasts is whether the connection evolves beyond the lower levels — not just the first, second, and third chakra (attraction, pleasure, confidence, power), but into the fourth (love), fifth (expression and co-creation), sixth (shared path and purpose), and finally the seventh (spirituality, the divine).
If you have a partner with whom you are connected on all these levels, the relationship becomes very intense, deeply fulfilling, and transformative. At times, you may even see in your partner an embodiment of the Divine.
Wow interesting!
I have looked up a little bit about my Star Constellations etc. And what I crave fits this.
I could stop craving this connection if I were to change my Natal Chart. But it would feel wrong.
All the possibilities I have had in Life to be with someone, but something always blocked me.
There could be so many reasons.
Natal Chart, maybe my Mother, maybe myself being scared.
I will meditate and find out
There are no ready-made solutions. There is only the choice that each person makes at every moment
Choosing to do nothing about your relationship is also a choice.
Just like choosing not to talk to your partner, not to work on the relationship, not to work on yourself, staying in a victim mentality, or living in fear of being rejected.
Of course, just like there are not complete models. 
If we dig a little deeper
I often write that to attract a whole and amazing partner, you first need to become whole yourself, because we attract people based on our own traumas.
Furthermore, our partner is a reflection of what we think about them, both consciously and subconsciously. This usually ties into how we view relationships between men and women. If money is tight or your partner isn’t earning, it means you are creating that reality. Your beliefs or the energy within the couple are in conflict.
For example, if a woman believes that a man with money will try to control her, her subconscious will resist that control, and as a result, the man’s income will decrease.
Everything you see in your partner right now is a direct reflection of your deep subconscious beliefs about them or about men in general. If you can find and change those core beliefs, everything else can change, too.
In my 15 years with my wife, she left me once. It was such a painful break that I felt like it was truly over. At the time, I wasn’t doing much,I was just focused on spiritual development and not working. She was at her parents’ house for two days.
During those two days, I found a job and secured a stable income. Do you see? Later, I realized that she was subconsciously “creating” me that way. Then, all these ancestral stories about violence against women from past lives came to the surface (I believe we have met in past lives, too), and that is how those relationship patterns were formed.
The same applies to sex. There are traumas coming from your family history and past lives, and there are many things that can block your energy centers. If you aren’t enjoying your sex life, it’s because you are creating that experience with your partner.
Again, your partner is just mirroring your internal beliefs about him. Can you change this? Of course, you can.
I believe absolutely everything can be changed.
However, both people must be willing to change because if only one person does the work while the other stays the same, a breakup becomes inevitable.
Yes, most things can be changed as long as both particles in the system are willing to commit to change and great if it’s in the same direction otherwise the system doesn’t survive.
We create each other in partnership and other relationships, including ones we have on communities, online or otherwise.
As part of this creation, there are other things that comes into play, mainly projections. Let’s say, if in the core you and your wife were not aligned, her wanting you to get a job could be construed as a form of control and you could have been a teeny tiny rebel wanting things your own way and heading down your own route. But you two wanted to be in similar direction, otherwise the solution would not have materialized.
I could have also interpreted it as you manifesting your wife to move out as a get a job call for yourself.
No end to understanding the source of creation.
ha…..this is what I had been thinking for a long time. Like since from I was a teen, I developed this mindset because of the environment I lived in.
Now it kinda relates, the pattern I see with males. The connection would cut off even before it would begin. Like just after talking phase. Either ego clash or some or the other situations come up. I would always think Universe is protecting me, so I let it go wouldn’t even bother to look back even if they initiated back for truce. I had very big ego and was rebellious back then lol, now I’m still as water .
Forget about me, my elder sister is very beautiful, like swoon worthy and was a prodigy who was good at everything, studies, dance, painting and she doesn’t have a single boyfriend till now. She had the same psychological mindset as me so it might be true for her. She still thinks ill of marriage and men too. I don’t know how to make her understand 
, she never listens.
I’m healing myself now but I will still wait for husband because I have no time to waste lol. Energies already indicated he’ll only come after I grab the position because he’s also related to government power.
Once a facilitator shared a story about a client.
A woman came to her with a relationship problem, saying, “There are no men out there at all!. Nobody ever tries to talk to me, and I just don’t see any men anywhere.”
The facilitator replied, “That’s not true. Just
walk into any bar, and you’ll see dozens of men, many of whom are probably looking to meet someone.”
The woman insisted that there were simply no men to be found.
They eventually agreed to go to a bar together that evening to test it out. When they walked in, the facilitator was shocked-there wasn’t a single man in the entire place. The woman just looked at her and said, “See? I told you there are no men.”
Our subconscious can build such a powerful picture of reality that it actually materializes.
The problem isn’t that there are no men; the problem is that you create situations where they aren’t there, or the ones you meet don’t fit your needs, or they treat you badly.
You create absence of men
All of this is the result of subconscious patterns that come from your family history or past lives.
This is especially true for beautiful women, as they attract a huge amount of attention, and they may have suffered from it in the past. They might have been hurt, so their subconscious blocks interactions with men to avoid repeating that pain.
There is this dynamic where some men feel intimidated by more developed and very attractive women. First, they fear rejection, and second, they worry that someone else might take her away later. Quite a few of my friends have told me they intentionally chose slightly less attractive women as wives so they’d feel more secure that they wouldn’t be cheated on. Of course, this doesn’t actually protect them in the long run, but they still hold these beliefs.
She needs to meet more mature men who aren’t afraid. 
True, I have sensed this pattern in many men. Like they want less intimidating women in their life, inferior one. They go for easier target to settle in.
But in case of women I believe they want more dominant men in every aspect than them, they won’t settle for less, especially capable beautiful women 
. My sis is like that, she has rejected every proposals who doesn’t meet her standards.
She’s so picky that marriage seems almost imaginary now. We are finding a spouse for her since 2 years but something or the other conflict comes. She has lot of limiting beliefs and conditions, I’m genuinely scared for her.
If I wasn’t an energy worker I should have been scared for myself because I have vowed not to marry before her because she’s a first born female and its a tradition for them to marry first, its like a jinx. Even if I’m the rule breaker in my lineage and can break the vow and curse but I will still not marry before her because out of respect for her. She will feel bad and left out and I don’t want that.
But I will lay a blueprint later, if she doesn’t marry before I pass the exam then I will use my position influence later to find her desired spouse, anyways which man wouldn’t want to be my brother in-law by then, afterwards I will marry . As long as I’m breathing I won’t let her go single.
Family is always about harmony and the balance of Yin and Yang. If a woman has an excess of masculine energy, the man should have an excess of feminine energy, with all the logical consequences that follow.
However, many modern women want to dominate in marriage and still have the man fulfill his traditional masculine roles. To fulfill thise role men need masculine energy.
If both partners have an excessively dominant masculine energy, there will be constant conflict, arguments, and power struggles over who is the head of the house. I have experienced this in my own marriage.
A strong woman must become wise. By being wise, she can manage any man.
In a harmonious family, a balance between masculine and feminine energy is absolutely essential.
That’s correct. A woman should not commit to a man she does not admire and respect — her right person should come.
Don’t do things like that. That vow won’t help her in any way, and it could only hold you back. I’d advise you to break it.