Receiving the Mother - Ancestral Clearing [DM+Audio]

Receiving the Mother

Energetically Programmed Field for Returning to Your Rightful Place in the Family System

There is no deeper imprint in the human soul than the bond with the mother. It is the first connection, the first love, and the first wound. And whether that bond was nourishing or painful, it shaped your foundation — for life, for love, for receiving.

This energetically programmed field is designed to restore the natural order between you and your mother, releasing the invisible tensions, expectations, and emotional roles that have quietly distorted your inner system. It brings you back to your true position: as her child.

:herb: Many carry hidden resentment, grief, or unmet longing toward their mother. The reasons vary —absence, rejection, criticism, control, silence. But in the deeper view of systemic truth, what your mother gave or did not give is secondary to one essential fact: she gave you life. And in the laws of the family soul, that is enough.
When we reject the mother — even unconsciously — we resist the source of life itself. We step out of alignment. We judge, resent, or try to fix her. We become the “parent” — the one who carries wisdom, pain, or emotional weight that was never ours.

This movement creates an inner split, where love turns into burden, and identity becomes fragmented.

:ocean: The consequences can ripple through every area of life:

-Chronic exhaustion, burnout, or emotional fatigue

-Difficulties in romantic relationships and intimacy

-Self-rejection or inability to feel at home in your own body

-Problems with receiving love, money, or rest

-Repeating cycles of over-giving, proving, or emotional caretaking

-Fear of motherhood or struggles in parenting

-Shame around femininity, softness, or sensuality

-Disconnection from your creative flow or true voice

:dna: The mother bond forms the original template for how you:

-Receive and allow support
-Trust yourself and others
-Rest into love without fear
-Connect to feminine energy, within and without
-Step into leadership, parenthood, or emotional maturity

When this bond is distorted, love feels unsafe. Nourishment feels distant. Support becomes something wemust earn — rather than something we naturally receive.

:cherry_blossom: This energetic field does not ask you to forget the past. It invites you to release the emotional positions that were never yours to hold. It corrects false loyalties and dissolves the burden of trying to be “the strong one,” “the good child,” or “the one who makes it better.” It allows you to say — not just with your mind, but from your soul: “You are my mother. I am your child.” And from this place, something begins to settle. Your nervous system softens. Your body opens.

Life begins to move again — not through force, but through order.

:sun: Movements supported by this field:

-Letting go of the unconscious role of “parenting your parent”
-Releasing the hope that your mother will change
-Returning unmet needs to their rightful place
-Reclaiming your right to receive, feel, and exist fully
-Restoring energetic boundaries between you and your lineage
-Awakening deeper trust, emotional intimacy, and inner safety
-Reintegrating healthy feminine (or masculine) inheritance
-Restoring the full aliveness of your sensual and emotional body
-Opening the path to become a mother, a partner, or a leader — without guilt or inner conflict

:gem_stone: Reported benefits include:

-A stronger sense of identity, grounding, and clarity
-Emotional peace and release of internal pressure
-Healing in romantic partnerships and family dynamics
-Enhanced ability to receive love, money, care, and nourishment
-Softening of shame or guilt around emotion, need, or rest
-Greater connection to body, sensuality, and joy
-Resolution of over-giving, rescuing, or over-responsibility patterns
-Readiness for healthy intimacy or conscious parenthood
-The felt experience of: “I am finally in my rightful place. I no longer carry what was never mine.”

:compass: This field is ideal for those who:

-Feel emotional distance, resentment, or unspoken pain toward their mother
-Have struggled with receiving, nurturing, or self-worth
-Experience burnout, emotional suppression, or isolation
-Are preparing to parent or heal their ancestral line
-Long to reconnect with the feminine essence in themselves
-Sense that a part of them has been frozen or missing
-Wish to return home — to the body, to life, to belonging

:key: The core systemic affirmation encoded in this field:

-You are my mother. I am your child.
-I take the life you gave me — fully, exactly as it came.
-What you could not give, I leave with you, with love.
-I release the role I took that was never mine.
-I return to my place — and from here, life flows to me, and through me, into the world.
️ -Healing from this place is no longer a struggle.
-It is a return — to order, to connection, to truth.
-You no longer wait for what was missing.
-You receive what has always been present:
-Life, in its wholeness — as it is.

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This field blew my mind. I thought I had sorted out my relationship with my mum, but this took things to another level. :astonished_face:

So I was a parentified daughter - responsible for my parents since childhood. I am lucky that my mum worked hard to become an adult. We had many difficult conversations that neither of us liked, however it made us stronger and our bond only improved.

I played this on loop, and then I drove to Poland. This not only works on understanding of your mother. I started to look differently at every woman in my family. Especially my gran, who was stuck at the age of 10 for her whole life.

I use both Father and Mother, and I must say it works on how I see my uncles, cousins, literally everyone. I love how much maturity those fields can bring in such a short time. I see things the way they are, no sugar coating, but also not salt on my wounds. I can enter a neutral state very easily.

I feel a nice internal balance between nurturing others and knowing that everyone around me will support me. Like zero doubts. I don’t think I ever felt this before.

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Sweet affirmation.

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I wanted to post my review I left on the site here as well:

I had a very interesting healing experience with this one. I was curious what emotions would surface while using this and the predominant one was: Jealousy! Which totally surprised me. Perhaps I was jealous of my mom, because she received the affection that I craved from my father, which treated me poorly. But another thing that it could be (since it deals with healing the ancestry and inherited emotions) is my mom’s emotions of jealousy. She recently confided in me that she was engaged to someone who treated her like crap and had a “roving eye” (always looking at other women). Now I’m wondering if that life event could have been transferred to me, because I remember getting absurdly jealous over everything when I was with my first boyfriend (and continued on in my other relationships). Like so overwhelmed with jealousy that I couldn’t even think straight. It was scary! Now everything has disappeared. Something came up where I thought I would feel this emotion again and I was sort of bracing myself for it, but it never came! I was very surprised. Thank you so much for this wonderful healing opportunity!

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We receive so much from our parents. I’m glad that you sorted this one out :slight_smile:
A bond with a mother is doubled because whatever she felt when was pregnant with you it is imprinted deeply. If she felt rejected, scared, stressed your life will be full of that.

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Yesterday my mother called me and she was hysterical on the phone.

It‘s about something I helped her with. I messed it up a bit but the main problem in my eyes is her classic: „I‘ve changed my mind“

So I did my best to help her and she agreed to what I did, but then changed her mind and now blames me for it.

Then she always hits me with: „I keep deciding to rely on you and then always regret it“

I never knew I could bring forth such aggression, but holy shit…. I hang up and then the Energy started. I could barely control it yesterday. Such insane aggression, not just mental but physical.

I tried so hard to contain it, but at some point I couldn‘t and I hammerfisted 10 times at my poor couch🛋️

I never knew how much anger I have towards my mother. I always thought I was fine with her.

When she divorced my father, she had an arguement with my aunt and then she made me and my brother decide between her or my aunt.

Through the whole divorce I sided with my mother, because I didn‘t want to disappoint her. Whenever I didn’t agree with her she started crying. Just now I noticed how she manipulated me.

She is not a bad human. She was a very kind and loving mother, but she has contributed a lot to my wounded masculinity.

She made me lose contact with a whole side of my family.

She relys on me and my brother for „masculine duties“

I help her out and sometimes very successful, but whenever ONE THING GOES WRONG, she says that she regrets relying on me.

How can I not get insanely mad at her now. It‘s so fucking hard to control myself.

I have so many thoughts about her now. About what happened the last 2 years.

I have some big decisions to make soon.

If I confront her I will end up hurting her verbally. We will probably not speak to each other for a long time then.

Or will the field solve these problems for me😅

I think the first choice is the better one. It will hurt and be uncomfortable but I think it‘s necessary…

Anyway, the field is working well :sweat_smile:

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You need to work through resentment, suppressed emotions, and hatred toward your mother. You must bring all of this up and remove it from yourself.

Once the hatred and negative emotions are gone, you need to change your perception of your mother. Because subconsciously thinking badly of her means you will be creating her that way. That is, she will behave towards you in the manner you think of her.

If you think she is manipulative, she will manipulate and confirm your opinion of her. This principle also applies to absolutely everything.

Also, you will 100% have to hurt her by establishing your new boundaries with her - what is acceptable and what is not. It is also important to say what you dislike.

Plus you must undergo complex separation, if it has not been completed yet.

The field can clear energies, but it will not replace conscious work on your relationship with your mother.

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Also, draw up a natal chart. You will probably learn more about your relationship with your mother. If the relationship has been difficult for a long time, then your Moon probably needs healing.

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It hasn‘t been difficult for long. At least not consciously.

These Emotions just suddenly popped up, because she triggered them. It‘s not the first time she said that but this time I had this field on, so the Emotions must have increased in Energy, so I have to deal with this problem.

Maitreyas Fields always make sure we learn our lessons.

Thank you for your advice :+1:t4:

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Very true. Honestly I feel like some fields are hard and heavy on me. After the release it smooths my soul.

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I hope it will help you to understand your anger, because you’re logical so let’s do this way @sikras67

When a woman has no emotional maturity properly developed when she reaches adult age, she will behave like a teenager despite having kids and a husband. She might be 50 but emotionally she is still 15 so her actions, behaviour and expectations will be on the level of 15 yrs old.

Quite often, immature parents create overly responsible children. This is called parentified son/daughter. Children grow up trying to babysit own parents, taking their responsibilities often acting like adults.

When a woman has bad relationship with a husband, then subconsciously she will put her son in this position. She will expect that her son will fulfil the role of her husband. This is not conscious. Feminine energy leans on masculine. Immature feminine energy will lean on everyone and wants to be saved, and doesn’t take any responsibility, and is fully rebellious.
So imagine that your mother, with all the respect, is a teenager completely unaware that she treats you like her husband, expecting you to do adult things, bring her safety, and everything that a masculine provider should do, however, without fulfilling her role as a caring and mature female.

You can’t grow up for your mother. This is her job. And teaching your parents the right role in the family sucks because you have to start acting like her son without her acting like an adult. It will bring a lot of guilt and probably conflicts. She will feel abandoned but you can’t sacrifice your life for parents because they have their life, their lessons to live.

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This is exactly what is happening! You hit the nail Polaris.

My mother expects me and my brother to take care of her. I know whenever I mention, that I might want to move to a different country she gets so upset and makes me feel like I‘m abandoning her. Yet she always say that she doesn‘t want to be a burden.

Classic woman in this case sorry😅 says one thing but the truth is something else.

Anything I will do from now on will hurt her immensely but I have to do it.

As you said, I can‘t sacrifice my own life for my parents, but that is what I‘m doing right now.

Both my mother and my father are lost causes right now. I have terrible feelings about this every day and I‘ve tried to avoid these feelings, because they suck. They suck really bad.

I could only cope if I shut down my emotions.

I really don‘t like drama. I think it‘s unnecessary but in this case It‘s very necessary….

If I manage to get through this, I know that nothing will stand in my way anymore. I will be able to start my souls purpose.

Must be a reason why I chose this family. These lessons I‘m learning will most likely be needed for my future.

A young man I worked with recently—24 years old—still lives with his mother. He wants to move out, but she constantly tells him that she will be left alone and will probably die of loneliness, and so on, manipulating him. Because he can’t defend himself, he also can’t tell her how he really sees things, since she will twist his words and make him feel guilty again. As a result, he begins to show aggression toward her—verbal aggression, but he even shared that there was one incident when he wanted to hit her very hard and barely managed to restrain himself.

Mothers and fathers can be very manipulative when they have placed their children in the role of their partner, and the child—who is already an adult—literally has to accept that they will hurt their parents and take that risk by stopping the fulfillment of their wishes and demands. If a parent occupies the place of a partner in a young person’s life, that person will never find a girlfriend or boyfriend, because in the system that place is already taken.

Therefore, this relationship must be corrected. Children only receive from their parents—they give nothing. That’s it. And they ask for nothing—whatever is given to them, they accept with gratitude and move forward in their own lives.

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How I wish this would be the case.

Right now I can‘t imagine not helping my parents.

Some things I can help with since I am a man, I don‘t mind. Things like carrying heavy stuff and maybe some technical stuff.

But that should be it. Nothing more.

And yeah probably the reason why I can‘t find a girlfriend right now.

In 2017 my mother wanted to divorce already. But she didn‘t at that time.

I think at that time my problem happened.

Because you were trained to fulfil their needs from your childhood. Designed and shaped. This is programming.

When I attempted suicide, it shocked my family. I was the rock of my family, taking care of everyone. My parents were always focused on themselves and burdened me with everything, and I also raised my sister, who is just 4 years younger than me. It was a complete demolition of my family’s structure. I had 3 days of peace after my suicide, and then everyone wanted to act “like before”. No one knew how to take care of me. It was all about them to feel better again.

My therapist showed me that I have 3 kids. No wonder I didn’t start my own family, no matter how deeply I wanted. I was a single mother of 3 very difficult kids :rofl: and also a father for them, because my sense of protection was extreme.

I had to teach my family how to grow up. I had to say “no”. The amount of guilt you feel during deconditioning is so painful. My “kids” were spoiled af. Spoiled kids are not a good thing. It won’t help them to become a healthy adult when you don’t teach them to deal with things on their own. Each boundary will be tested.

It took us years and a lot of conflict. But!
My parents started to believe in themselves and started to be proud that they can do things on their own without me involved. My sister, in a year, made huge progress in self-development that shocked me. Without my help, on her own. I can see that the less I was involved, the more they learned.

Doing everything for your parents and responding to every need will make them dependent and take away their future ability to handle life. Millennials are the first generation that must reparent themselves while parenting their own kids and deparenting their own parents, which is extremely difficult.

My parents did the best they could, having no tools, no understanding of patterns, no wisdom from podcasts, YouTube, Instagram etc while they were young and lost. I don’t blame them at all. But I have knowledge, skills, talents so it is up to me to dismantle this. You change yourself, so the rest of your family responded to that. First with anger, accusations, fury even, but again you deal with kids that don’t know how to grow up because they had no role models to follow.

When your child wants you to do everything for them, and you, as an adult, understand that this will create an adult who can’t cope with simple life responsibilities, would you do it?
Ofcrs not. We want our children to feel safe and loved, but we also need discipline and boundaries, because without them, there is no safety. And ofcrs kids will test those boundaries a million times.

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You‘re a beast Polaris. In a good way :grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes:

Much respect :flexed_biceps:t4:

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Polaris, You are definitely a inspiration to me. I could resonate so much with you. May God Bless you dear.

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It’s interesting how the fields continue to work.

I mentioned that I set the healing fields for my mom and for my dad as the wallpapers on my parents’ phones.

My mom is a very controlling person. She needs to keep everything under control.

Because of the shelling, we need to buy batteries, since the electricity is often turned off.

I asked her if they had really decided to buy a battery system for the house, so they could store energy and use it later.
She answered that my dad is handling all of this and that she is not interfering. She said, “You always tell me that I interfere in everything, and now all of this is on him. You have retrained me.”

P.S. Guys, I’ve done a lot of work on myself and on healing the ancestral system. I believe this is a complex result of many mandalas for healing the family lineage.

But one thing is certain - it’s absolutely worth it.

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