Overcoming Abandonment Trauma & Reclaim Belonging | Open Your Heart

The wound of abandonment is one of the oldest imprints carried by the human heart. Sometimes it comes from a real separation — a parent who left, a loved one who passed away, a bond that dissolved too early. Other times, it is shaped silently: growing up around emotionally distant caregivers, feeling unseen within a group, living among people yet sensing no true connection. The subconscious reads all of these as the same message: “My place is not secure. I can be left behind.”

This energetically programmed field works within the deepest layers of the emotional body, where the original imprint was formed. It reaches into the subconscious timeline, locating the first moment where the inner self learned that love could disappear and that connection was not guaranteed. Instead of forcing change, the field dissolves the contracted energy around that memory and replaces it with a stable, grounded sense of belonging. It invites the nervous system to release its constant vigilance — the hyper-awareness of distance, the fear of silence, the tension that arises when someone doesn’t respond immediately.

As the energetic pattern unwinds, the heart begins to soften. The field restores the lost feeling of “home” within the self — that natural, ancient knowing that one belongs, that one’s presence is wanted, that connection does not have to be earned or chased. The emotional body stops reacting from survival-mode, and relationships gradually shift from clinging or avoidance into steady, natural closeness.

Many people who carry abandonment trauma swing between extremes: merging too tightly out of fear of losing someone, or detaching completely to avoid being hurt. This field gently recodes that polarity. It rebalances the inner child — the part that once stood alone in the dark — and reconnects it with the adult self, giving it safety, visibility, and permission to need support. From there, the protective walls can soften without collapsing. Tenderness becomes safe again.

On a spiritual level, the abandonment wound is the illusion of separation itself — the belief that one can be cut off from love, source, tribe, or destiny. This field clears the energetic residue of past separation and reinstates the original blueprint of connectedness. It brings the auric field back into cohesion, calling one’s scattered fragments home, restoring the sense of wholeness that was interrupted long ago.

Over time, the user may notice subtle but powerful changes:
a calmer heart, steadier boundaries, deeper intimacy that does not feel threatening, and the quiet inner knowing that “I am not alone.”
This is the true alchemy of the field — transforming the fear of being left into the freedom of being securely anchored within oneself.

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It also includes healing for the adrenal glands, which are often damaged by this trauma and continuously pump cortisol.
Additionally, it facilitates a timeline shift into a reality where the person becomes intoxicated with love — able to feel it deeply, to give it freely, and to receive it openly.

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Dear Mai excellent field. Bought it dear. Love you to the core of my being.

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You know this is the best part. Not many know this biology. I dont have any words to express my gratitude.

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I’m glad to be of service to you all.

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This is the best form of gratitude :slight_smile:

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A great description! Seems like everyone could benefit from this. Thank you

When I red the description, I directly had to remember my earliest time here on earth. Straight after birth I was brought to a hospital, 60 km away from home for several weeks, only saw my father once a day, as he brought the mothers milk.

I want to find the root why I’m always struggle to live. I mean I make progress, but somehow other shit comes up. Like a never ending spiral. Am I the only one who regularly comes here to cry my problems out :frowning: I mean, I receive so much help, generosity and guidance, but I don’t become ready. I want to be a beacon of inspiration and support, but yeah.

Actually I’m looping divine invocation all day, it helps good to not put my head into the sand. What is good that yesterday I finally understood, that I should take care of my nervous system, as maitreya told me months ago.

I feel in danger all the time I think..

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People underestimate the nervous system work. If we start from the Nervous system then all the problems comes to an end.

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I am tempted to send this one back with time breaker but the changes might be too huge.

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Love this idea. Will send it back in time. Thanks.

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The nature of the mind is designed to generate constant suffering. Until it is mastered — a process that takes consistent meditation — a person keeps suffering even when there is no real reason for it. Worries, fears, inner turmoil, and other states arise endlessly.
There are two ways to break this mechanism and step out of it:

  1. Daily meditation for months — This does not mean that the effects only appear after months. They appear throughout the process. The mind gradually empties, we observe its illusions, and they dissolve, dissolve, dissolve… until we see that the “monster under the bed” was an illusion all along.
  2. Living through the heart — Cultivating love as a daily practice. This does not happen automatically, like falling in love; it must be trained. We learn to feel love again and again, to give it, to receive it — repeatedly, every day.

Combined with the fields, these two approaches create a very powerful effect, and the Divine Invocation field is wonderful for supporting this process.

This abandonment may have created a trauma that keeps your nervous system in a constant state of threat. Meditation and breathing techniques can help you a lot with this. There is also a method I personally use whenever I find myself under intense stress.

Stay alone with yourself for 5 minutes. Take a few deep breaths and feel your body.
Then roll your eyes upward — without moving your head — as if you’re trying to look at your third eye. Do this 2–3 times for about a minute each, and your vagus nerve will start to relax.

Another method you can use if you’re around people is to press firmly on the point between your thumb and index finger. When you find the slightly painful spot, that’s the point. This immediately helps reduce fear and anxiety.

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Do you think anything negative could come from this?

Definitely not. It will be only a huge set of changes and a surge of love which I don’t know if I will be able to handle. Receiving love is a muscle too.

Once this one goes back in time, all my relationships change fundamentally, especially the romantic ones and also has the potential to change my work trajectory, how I treat my body and diet, basically everything. This is a very primary wound, causal I would say and has far reaching implications.

I have deeply debilitating moon and South Node placements, a chart that screams emotionally damaged. It is a life full of lessons, responsibilities, detachment and firm connection with spirit. This field has the potential to reverse the initial emotional damage and potentially help me override the limitations of my chart.

When I sent the calm productivity one back and tore RN, all my anxiety fuelled goals and dreams and aspirations disappeared. It left me in a clean, calm, space. By no means is it bad, just intensely different from anything I am used to. I am sitting in this space now where I have the ability to shape my trajectory forward without stress but it just feels so unfamiliar without the anxiety engine.

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Thank you a lot for providing clarity! I needed to hear that, and I’m coming back to the topic of love and living trough the heart.

As you first told me about the exercise, I haven’t understood it right🙈 thanks for that, too.

Now I commit myself the first priority for me is getting into a stable state of love, without external influences😊 and divine Invocation really saves me, don’t know why I stopped using this long time ago🙆‍♂️

It seems like a karmic or ancestral wound (in my opinion, there could be a connection with the ancestral trauma of war for which Maitreya released a field…).
Since it is a wound, could there be entities associated with it that are trying to exploit it for their own benefit? I’ve noticed feelings of fear, sadness, shame, and self-hatred, as well as effects on the nervous system and, probably, on the aura. For these reasons, I’ve been continuing to use the field for a few days, along with other fields than protect or enforce the aura (like warrior energy, cameleon protection, Empath Protection, and Return To Sender).
I am sometimes experiencing sensations of warmth in the perineum, pelvis, and hips, along with a calmer and lighter heart.
I think it still needs constant application. I will post updates. I wish everyone healing and love.

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