First of all, you need to understand that these patterns come either from your current incarnation, your ancestral lineage, or a past life.
Everything that forms in your current incarnation generally comes from past lives and your ancestral system.
What comes from the ancestral system is stronger than what formed in this incarnation, which is why it’s important to clear it on all three levels.
Right now, there are many mandalas available for clearing various aspects within the ancestral system. Plus, there’s a course on working with the ancestral system - an incredibly good tool. I’ve already developed my own algorithms for using it, so the work goes quickly. To put it briefly, I have quite extensive knowledge of psychology so I understand which past patterns can affect the present. I gather all of them.
For example: a history of failure in business. I find every possible reason why that might be. Then, using the course, I enter the ancestral system, acknowledge and accept all those in my ancestral lines and incarnations who…
Here's the list
..those who have experienced business crashes and lost everything they built
…those who invested effort and resources but didn’t get the expected results
…those who faced betrayal from partners or employees
…those who lost money due to being too trusting or being deceived
…those who made decisions out of fear and later paid the price
…those who were afraid to take risks and missed opportunities because of it
…those who took excessive risks and destroyed what they had created
…those who didn’t believe in their ability to earn and keep money
…those who devalued their work and sold themselves for less than they were worth
…those who didn’t know how to set boundaries in work and business
…those who worked to the point of exhaustion but didn’t get a sufficient return
…those who felt shame for their failures and closed themselves off from the world
…those who feared judgment and therefore didn’t show their full potential
…those who quit halfway through because of a fear of failure
…those who sabotaged their own growth when the business started to expand
…those who couldn’t handle success and unconsciously destroyed it
…those who felt a fear of big money and responsibility
…those who believed that success would require paying too high a price
…those who lost motivation after the first difficulties
…those who didn’t know how to follow through to get results
…those who didn’t trust themselves as entrepreneurs
…those who depended on others’ opinions when making decisions
…those who were afraid to take on leadership and responsibility
…those who avoided visibility and being seen in business
…those who didn’t know how to build stable systems and processes
…those who fell into debt due to wrong decisions or circumstances
…those who lived in constant tension and fear over money
…those who associated money with danger, stress, or loss
…those who believed it was impossible to earn money honestly
…those who went against their values for the sake of money and lost themselves
…those who suffered losses to maintain relationships or loyalty
…those who stayed in unprofitable partnerships out of a fear of being alone
…those who caused financial harm to others for their own gain
…those who manipulated or pressured others in business
…those who abused their power or position
…those who broke agreements and undermined trust
…those who didn’t know how to build honest and transparent relationships
…those who took on others’ responsibilities and burned out
…those who saved others at the expense of their own business
…those who didn’t allow themselves to earn more than the people around them
…those who were afraid to stand out and become more successful than others
…those who felt guilt over money and growth
…those who didn’t see opportunities where they existed
…those who got stuck in repeating patterns of failure
…those who turned down opportunities because of a fear of change
…those who didn’t know how to recover after falling
…those who got stuck in past experiences and didn’t move forward
…those who identified themselves with their failures
…those who considered themselves a “loser” because of one or more experiences
…those who were afraid to try again after a painful experience
…those who lived with the belief that business is always hard and risky
Next, I return to them everything that doesn’t belong to me. After that, I activate the ancestral memory and ask to step forward all those who have the qualities, skills, and states I need. I also declare to my ancestors what I want, saying that these cycles end with me and a new stage begins with me.
That’s it - the work with the ancestral line is set aside.
Then I continue working with parts of my personality through Soul Reunification. Again, using the list from above, I acknowledge and accept those parts of me that… blah-blah-blah. After that, I align all these parts so that we move in the same direction - meaning I tell them what I want, then ask those who are against it to show themselves, and so on - check the Soul Reunification thread, I wrote about it there. Next, I put together a list of beliefs and affirmations I want to have and install. For that, I use Subconscious Connector + Infinitely Repeater + Mind Master + Focus on Now.
And then I simply work with my identity, repeating all this to myself and constantly reminding myself.
Once you’ve worked through ancestral patterns, working on yourself becomes much easier, and it’s very easy to shift and install new knowledge about yourself.
Sometimes I feel like I’ve developed such a powerful connection with my subconscious that I don’t even need the tools anymore. I just need to understand the concept I want to integrate, enter the state of already having it, and the subconscious will start integrating it. That is, I can just repeat the same thing many times, and then I realize these thoughts are already mine… and after that, the world reflects what you think. Still, I keep using all the tools the old-fashioned way because they’re amazing.
So this long, lengthy algorithm is for big concepts - you do it once, and that’s it, then you work on something smaller.
When the past no longer pulls you into trauma, you simply start choosing your thoughts and assigning meaning to events, choosing how things will be for you. Simply by choosing what you think and how you interpret things, you create everything around you. For example, if I believe that people are always happy to see me, and I keep thinking that and saying it to myself, then wherever I go, people will be happy to see me. And we’re used to repeating the same things anyway.
We’re used to reading smart books, listening to smart people who tell you what’s right and what’s wrong… But that’s just their reality and their worldview, and that’s what works for them… which doesn’t mean it can’t work differently.
That’s why I try not to hold rigid points of view or cling to fixed perspectives. I don’t like absolutism, and I don’t listen to people who are dogmatic. What’s more, I don’t really like listening to people who tell you what you “should” do in business… that’s their model, my model is different.
I can listen to them to get to know what else is possible, what algorithms can be, what can be done, but I never make their points of view rigid.
There are several rigid points of view I have: everything is possible; I can do anything, I’m allowed to do everything, and I can handle whatever comes my way.
That’s it ))
So I work a lot on my perception - how I see things - because the way I perceive something is the way I create it.
It’s very important to heal your relationship with your parents - with your father and mother - because you’ll end up projecting a lot onto other people. For example, a client might come to you who reminds you of your father in some way. If you have unresolved conflict with your father, and this person reminds you of him (which they will), you’ll find yourself in conflict and difficult relationships for no apparent reason. The same goes with women.
You also need to understand your motivation - why you’re doing what you’re doing. Often in business, people are trying to prove something, including to their parents - that they’re worthy, and so on. Whenever I notice that in myself, I immediately go and work on that issue.
It’s also important to work on self-love, because we often get involved in situations where there’s no love for us. If we don’t love ourselves, we’re constantly running around looking for someone to say something nice to us. We’ll offer things and do things to our own detriment just to be told we’ve done well. If that’s the case for you, you also need to go and work on that through the parent and ancestral themes.
The same goes for the wound of rejection. I remember 15 years ago when I made my first cold call. I prepared for two weeks, then called, and they said no. It took me another two weeks to recover, because I had this underlying trauma of being rejected.
The same went for feelings of shame. Again, I would work through it, because that’s something that will strongly affect everything you do, no matter what it is…
If this is a deep issue from the perspective of psychology and ancestral healing, you absolutely need to work through it. If it’s a small, superficial pattern or perspective, you can easily change it through working with your identity (and parts of you)