Adaptive Shield [DM+Audio]

Yes, you’re right. Restoring my self, especially sense of safety is something I am working on, and yes it is the mothers side. I’ve gotten the fields. It’s helping my son more to be honest He had this intense fear of dogs and would freeze up whenever he saw one. He actually pet a dog twice in his school. So I’m glad some things are clearing up for him.

I’m actually afraid to work on anything spiritual that I have no knowledge of or go beyond my norm which is basically clearing stuff lol. But ancestral has been a huge part of my healing journey. I hear too many things and don’t know what to trust and after like the millionth time – I’ll trust myself. It’s tough man…

I opened up way too much before. I wan an open book and these suckers tried force me into isolation and silence. I’m just happy that I was able to share my experience because as you said….that’s a huge part of my healing. Being part of a community is a must. I moved from the City to the country side and I’m out here all by myself with no friends or family so it’s been tougher…

This to shall pass I guess lol. AND I SAID THE SAME THING: Piece of gold worth $10….it’s a must, did wonders for my mind.

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This almost always comes from family history or past lives, when there were witches, healers and other spiritually developed people in the family who were persecuted, burned at the stake, or killed. Now this shows up as fear.

You need to look into the family system to recognize and accept it. Give it a place, and send back everything that doesn’t belong to you.

It’s actually much easier with children. They change their beliefs and mindsets very quickly.

For example, ask a child a question: “If you weren’t afraid of dogs, why wouldn’t you be afraid?” He’ll start listing reasons: “Because they’re beautiful and kind. Because I’m strong and brave.”

Then ask: “How would you feel if you weren’t afraid of dogs?” He’ll start talking and listing things.

Next, find a friendly dog and talk to the owner. Approach it, let the dog lick his hands, then let him pet it. Afterward, say something like: “Wait, so you’re not afraid of dogs at all? See? Why aren’t you afraid?” He’ll explain to himself why he isn’t afraid.

Then he’ll create a self-programming mindset, like: “Mom, I’m not afraid of dogs!” “Yes, son, you’re not afraid. You’re so strong and brave.”

Repeat this and remind him several times at home. Add some excitement and emotion to the conversation. A new mindset will form - that he is not afraid of dogs.

Over time, this will become his core belief, and he’ll stop being afraid entirely. If you know a story where a dog once barked at him and caused the fear, turn it into a joke. Say it was just a dream or something he read in a book: “Remember that book we read?”

He’ll accept this information as the truth, thinking: “Oh, right, I got it mixed up - we read that in a book.”

Also, start seeing your child as someone who is not afraid of dogs. Forget the old stories, they don’t matter anymore. Change your own perception, and the child will feel it even more, so they’ll change faster.

In general, children always signal what’s inside their parents. Children are projections for parents, so that parents can see their own reflection in them.

For example their own fears

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