Buddy, I’d suggest looking for a fractal partner or anyone for a long-term commitment only after you’ve had a chance to heal all your past traumas.
Once you become whole yourself, you’ll naturally attract other whole people; you’ll just resonate on the same level.
Maitreya also shared this:
So, go ahead and experiment 
I hope you have the strength to handle all the beautiful, charismatic, sexy, and wonderful women headed your way 
