# Self Blaming

**URL:** <https://forum.maitreyafields.com/t/self-blaming/12285>\
**Category:** Fields\
**Created:** [March 17, 2026, 12:01pm UTC](https://forum.maitreyafields.com/t/self-blaming/12285 "2026-03-17T12:01:05Z")\
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**Author:** ![orbitgrey](https://forum.maitreyafields.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/o/a8b319/32.png) [@orbitgrey](https://forum.maitreyafields.com/u/orbitgrey)\
**Post date:** [March 17, 2026, 12:01pm UTC](https://forum.maitreyafields.com/t/self-blaming/12285/1 "2026-03-17T12:01:05Z")

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Hello,

I just purchased “self boundaries” but what other fields would you suggest for feeling responsible for other people’s feelings and being in this loop of constant self blaming.

Warmest regards 🙂

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**Author:** ![Maitreya](https://forum.maitreyafields.com/user_avatar/forum.maitreyafields.com/maitreya/32/12843_2.png) [@Maitreya](https://forum.maitreyafields.com/u/Maitreya)\
**Post date:** [March 17, 2026, 1:36pm UTC](https://forum.maitreyafields.com/t/self-blaming/12285/2 "2026-03-17T13:36:16Z")

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The constant self-blame and feeling responsible for others’ emotions often comes from a core belief formed in childhood: that love has to be earned, and that if someone is upset, it must be your fault.

Along with **Self Boundaries** , here are the fields that address exactly this pattern:

**1. [This Is Who I AM | Subconscious Reprogramming & Identity Shift](https://www.maitreyastore.com/p/this-is-who-i-am/)** This one works directly on the self-image built in childhood — the beliefs about who you are and how you need to behave to be loved. You can use it with a clear intention like: _“I am enough. I don’t need to earn love.”_ It’s probably the most targeted field for what you’re going through.

**2. [Shadow Integration](https://www.maitreyastore.com/p/shadow-integration/)** The described end result of this field is feeling happy and whole without needing much from the outside world — which is exactly what people-pleasing takes away from you. It helps you stop projecting that need for approval outward and find that wholeness within.

**3. [Samskara – Energetic Imprints of the Past](https://www.maitreyastore.com/p/samskara-energetic-imprints-of-the-past-dm-audio/)** Samskaras are the deep energetic imprints left by past experiences — often from early childhood. This field works on releasing those old programs at the root level, so the loop of guilt and over-responsibility gradually loses its grip.

**4. [Unconditional Love](https://www.maitreyastore.com/p/unconditional-love/)** A great supporting field. It infuses you directly with the unconditional love you’ve been seeking from others — filling that space from the inside rather than looking for it externally.

These four together with Self Boundaries create a very complete stack for this kind of healing.

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**Author:** ![orbitgrey](https://forum.maitreyafields.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/o/a8b319/32.png) [@orbitgrey](https://forum.maitreyafields.com/u/orbitgrey)\
**Post date:** [March 17, 2026, 1:37pm UTC](https://forum.maitreyafields.com/t/self-blaming/12285/3 "2026-03-17T13:37:41Z")

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Motherrrrr. The healer. Thank you!

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**Author:** ![anon68393423](https://forum.maitreyafields.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/a/ee7513/32.png) [@anon68393423](https://forum.maitreyafields.com/u/anon68393423)\
**Post date:** [March 18, 2026, 2:26pm UTC](https://forum.maitreyafields.com/t/self-blaming/12285/4 "2026-03-18T14:26:48Z")

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Use Mind control to stop these PTSD thoughts. It is a must field for the PTSD.